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1 + understanding ATTACHMENT Torben Bergland, MD Associate Director General Conference of Seventh-day Adventists Health Ministries Department
2 + Program 1. Attachment: No one stands alone the importance of closeness in relationships 2. Addictions: Real needs sought met by fake fillers 3. Burnout: When work engagement erodes 4. Depression & Anxiety: When life becomes too painful and too dangerous 5. Trust: A mentally and relationally healthy workplace
3 + Closeness Is it something desirable and good? Dangerous and risky? A necessity? A priority? Worth the cost and effort?
4 + God Genesis 2:18 NIV 18 The Lord God said, It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.
5 + eden ahbez Nature Boy, 1947 The greatest thing you'll ever learn, Is just to love and be loved in return.
6 + The Perks of Being a Wallflower We accept the love we think we deserve Source:
7 + John Bowlby Attachment theory Developed by the British psychiatrist and psychoanalyst John Bowlby ( ). A psychological model that attempts to describe the dynamics of long-term and short-term interpersonal relationships.
8 + Attachment theory n Attachment theory regards the propensity to make intimate emotional bonds to particular individuals as a basic component of human nature, already present in germinal form in the neonate and continuing through adult life into old age." (Bowlby, J. (1988). A secure base, pp ) n People are biologically driven to form attachments with others. n The quality of early attachments influence the child s emotional and social development, as well as future relationships and mental health.
9 + Attachment theory n Adult attachment behaviour is a reflection of the expectations and beliefs people have formed about themselves and others through previous attachment relational experiences. n The "working models, or images of self and others in relationships, are relatively stable. n These images of self and others in relationship are necessary in order to n interpret the present reality, n predict what might happen in the future, and n choose an appropriate behaviour.
10 + The compensation and correspondence model Hoffman, L. (2008). God Image Handbook for Spiritual Counseling and Psychotherapy: Research, Theory, and Practice, p (G. L. Moriarty, Ed.) (1 edition). Routledge. The compensation model n God becomes a substitute attachment figure n God compensates for the needs of security and availability not fulfilled in the childhood parental relationships n Previously insecurely attached individuals tend to find substitute attachment figures n As children become more independent of parents, God becomes the substitute attachment figure The correspondence model n The God image corresponds to their other interpersonal relationships n Individuals with secure attachment styles had a more loving and less distant God image compared to individuals with insecure attachment styles n Younger children often fit the correspondence model, while through maturity and increasing separation from parents they may move more towards a compensation model
11 Children develop internal images of self and others in relationship which become models for + interaction with others in adulthood Fundamental relational beliefs Typical assumptions Relational consequence Positive image of self Believes in one s selfworth and lovability I am worth being loved à Low-level relational anxiety Negative image of self Distrusts one s self-worth and lovability I have to deserve the love of others I have to make myself lovable à High-level relational anxiety Positive image of others Believes in other s ability and capacity to give the love one needs Other people are willing and able to love me and they are available when I need them à Low-level avoidance Negative image of others Distrusts others ability and capacity to give the love one needs I cannot trust others, but have to take care of myself and manage on my own The ones who should love me hurt and reject à High-level avoidance
12 + Attachment in adults Positive image of others Low-level avoidance Anxious Secure Preoccupied with closeness and rejection Comfortable with both intimacy and independence Negative image of self High-level anxiety Fearful Avoidant Positive image of self Low-level anxiety Fears closeness and is relationally avoidant Self-sufficient and denies the need for closeness Negative image of others High-level avoidance
13 + Attachment in adults Prevalence Style Prevalence Secure % Anxious % Avoidant % Fearful 5-15 %
14 + Attachment in adults Positive image of others Low-level avoidance Anxious Secure Preoccupied with closeness and rejection Comfortable with both intimacy and independence Negative image of self High-level anxiety Fearful Avoidant Positive image of self Low-level anxiety Fears closeness and is relationally avoidant Self-sufficient and denies the need for closeness Negative image of others High-level avoidance
15 + Secure attachment Typical self-statements n It is relatively easy for me to become emotionally close to others. n I do not fear the feelings of myself or others. n I am comfortable depending on others and having others depend on me. n I don't worry about being alone or others not accepting me.
16 + Attachment in adults Positive image of others Low-level avoidance Anxious Secure Preoccupied with closeness and rejection Comfortable with both intimacy and independence Negative image of self High-level anxiety Fearful Avoidant Positive image of self Low-level anxiety Fears closeness and is relationally avoidant Self-sufficient and denies the need for closeness Negative image of others High-level avoidance
17 + Insecure attachment Anxious n Typical self-statements n I long for closeness, but struggle a lot with the fear of being rejected. n I want to be completely emotionally intimate with others, but I often find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like. n I am uncomfortable being without close relationships, but I sometimes worry that others don't value me as much as I value them. n I may become too dependant on others. n I often doubt whether others like me, I worry a lot and blame myself if something goes wrong in a relationship. n I am sensitive to criticism and often perceive it as rejection. n In close relationships my emotions run high and I have difficulty controlling them.
18 + Attachment in adults Positive image of others Low-level avoidance Anxious Secure Preoccupied with closeness and rejection Comfortable with both intimacy and independence Negative image of self High-level anxiety Fearful Avoidant Positive image of self Low-level anxiety Fears closeness and is relationally avoidant Self-sufficient and denies the need for closeness Negative image of others High-level avoidance
19 + Insecure attachment Avoidant n Typical statements n I am comfortable being without close emotional relationships and I do not need them. n It is important to me to be independent and self-sufficient. n I prefer not to depend on others or have others depend on me. n There are more important things in life than close relationships. n I keep my emotions in check and hide them if I am under pressure. n If I am rejected I have no desire to re-establish or continue the relationship.
20 + Attachment in adults Positive image of others Low-level avoidance Anxious Secure Preoccupied with closeness and rejection Comfortable with both intimacy and independence Negative image of self High-level anxiety Fearful Avoidant Positive image of self Low-level anxiety Fears closeness and is relationally avoidant Self-sufficient and denies the need for closeness Negative image of others High-level avoidance
21 + Insecure attachment Fearful n Typical statements n I do not feel loved or wanted. n I am somewhat uncomfortable getting close to others and do not trust their intentions. n I want emotionally close relationships, but I find it difficult to trust others completely, or to depend on them. n I sometimes worry that I will be hurt if I allow myself to become too close to others. n I suppress my feelings and find it difficult to express affection.
22 + What might be done about an insecure attachment patterns? n Attachment patterns are rather stable over a lifetime n % keep their primary attachment style through life n % change their primary attachment style n Insecure attachment patterns may change in more secure direction through experiencing others as a secure base in life one may turn to in times of distress, someone who supports, comforts and calms. n Insight into the attachment patterns of ourselves and others may help us n understand what happens when things get relationally stressful, n to limit inappropriate and damaging behaviour, and n repair when something has gone wrong.
23 + Fear and defences What creates distance in relationships
24 + The dangers of being too defensive The School of Life Source: 3Fk0YXk
25 + The dilemma We want to maximize closeness and minimize vulnerability, but closeness is only gained when one dares to be vulnerable
26 + Recommended reading n n n n n n n Wikipedia: Attachment theory n Wikipedia: Attachment in adults n Rachel Heller & Amir Levine: Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help You Find - and Keep Love Stan Tatkin: Wired for Love Wired for Dating The Book of Life & The School of Life n n Psychalive n Self-assessment: Experiences in close relationships, ECR-R or ECR-RS n
27 + Thank you Your comments, input and feedback is appreciated:
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