ELEPHANT IN THE OFFICE!

Size: px
Start display at page:

Download "ELEPHANT IN THE OFFICE!"

Transcription

1 Ethics

2 ELEPHANT IN THE OFFICE!

3 Ethical Choices Learn to distinguish between right & wrong Professional groups or an employer s code of ethics can help Restrain yourself from choosing the wrong path Don t let your life be driven by the desire for immediate gratification Find satisfaction through nonfinancial resources Make sure your values are in harmony with those of your employer It can be easier to make the right ethical choices if your employer s values are compatible with yours

4

5 The fable of the Blind Men and the Elephant became well know with the poem of John Godfrey Saxe in The story is about blind men who touch different parts of an elephant to find out what it is about; they each think they know the whole, when, in fact, they have only experienced part of it. One feels the elephant s tail and thinks an elephant is a rope; One feels the tusk and thinks an elephant is like a spear, and so on.

6 It was six men of Hindustan to learning much inclined, Who went to see the Elephant (though all of them were blind), That each by observation might satisfy his mind. So oft in theologic wars, the disputants, I ween, Rail on in utter ignorance of what each other mean, And prate about an Elephant not one of them has seen. The fable underscores the need to have the whole picture of an activity to ensure success in the endeavor.

7

8 What are ethics? In the simplest terms, the word ethics refers to the application of moral principals in the way that we conduct our individual or group behavior.

9

10

11

12

13

14

15

16

17

18 Ethics and the Law Many laws are based on ethical principles, which are in turn based on morals. If something is unethical it s usually illegal. But not everything that is illegal is unethical.

19 Example: Say you forget to feed your parking meter while you re having lunch with a friend. You may get a ticket because you are technically breaking the law. But being forgetful is not unethical. You have broken the law, and you will pay a fine, but you are still an ethical person.

20 So how are ethics applied in the workplace? Ethics must be applied every time you have to make a decision about what s the right thing to do?

21 Amy promised me a raise if I knew Windows 8. I really need the money, but I don t know the software that well. What should I tell her? I overheard the staff in accounting talking about just taking a little off the top. Should I tell the boss they may be embezzling? Walt keeps asking me to pick up his dry cleaning. Will I get fired if I say no? Should we fire Jane? She s not great at her job, but she has three kids to feed.

22 There is a LOT of pressure in the workplace! When your pay check depends on the choices you make, it can be really hard even for good people always to make the right decisions.

23 It takes good character make ethical decisions! Trustworthiness Respect Responsibility Fairness Caring Citizenship

24 Seven Steps for Ethical Decision Making Step 1 - Stop and Think Step 2 - Review Long-Term Goals Step 3 - Determine the Facts Step 4 - Consider the Options Step 5 - Consider the Consequences Step 6 - Choose Step 7 - Monitor Results

25 Step 1 - Stop and Think Some ethical decisions must be made very quickly, but if you have any time to stop and think, DO IT!

26 Step 2 - Review Long-Term Goals Instant gratification often leads to unethical decisions. If your long term goals include not going to jail, being someone people respect, and being able to sleep well at night, then remind yourself that it s worth it to make ethical decisions!

27 Step 3 - Determine the Facts In the workplace, you may find someone else is cheating or behaving unethically and feel obligated to turn them in. You cannot act on suspicion alone! You must have all the facts.

28 Step 4 - Consider the Options Do nothing Gather more info Do the right thing Doing nothing can sometimes be just as dangerous as doing something. As for doing the right thing, you may have several options to choose from and it can be hard to know which one is best. Look at the merits of all decisions.

29 Step 5 - Consider the Consequences If any of the items on your list of possible actions would require lying, cheating, stealing, hurting others, or being disrespectful, cross it off the list. Ask yourself how you d feel if everyone knew your decision; a decision that only looks good if no one else knows about it, is always the wrong choice.

30

31 Step 6 - Choose Eventually you will have to choose a course of action, and you alone will be responsible for the outcome, but it helps to find a mentor, someone with good character, who can help you choose wisely. Talk to people you respect and trust before making your decision.

32 Step 7 - Monitor Results Because we often must act with imperfect knowledge of what may happen as a consequence of our actions, some decisions may turn out badly. An ethical person monitors his or her decisions, sees where they went wrong, and strives to correct errors and do better in the future

33

34 Checklist for Dealing with Ethical Dilemmas Step 1. Recognize the ethical dilemma. Step 2. Get the facts. Step 3. Identify your options. Step 4. Test each option: Is it legal? Is it right? Is it beneficial? Step 5. Decide which option to follow. Step 6. Ask the Spotlight Questions : To double check your decision. How would I feel if my family found out about my decision? How would I feel if the local newspaper printed my decision? Step 7. Take action.

35 Quick Tips Resist the urge to pass tough decisions on to someone else, assuming they ll know what to do. Sometimes you may have to choose between the lesser of two evils which means there is no choice that won t hurt someone. In such cases, the best choice is generally one that hurts fewest people. Sacrificing yourself in one way or another is seen as one of the most ethical and noble things you can do if the circumstances demand it.

36

37 Managers must provide a good role model by: Being ethical and honest at all times. Telling the truth; don t hide or manipulate information. Admitting failure and not trying to cover it up. Communicating shared ethical values to employees through symbols, stories, and slogans. Rewarding employees who behave ethically and punish those who do not. Protecting employees (whistleblowers) who bring to light unethical behaviors or raise ethical issues.

38 One way to get used to making tough ethical decisions is to practice! Can you think of an ethical problem? How would you solve it?

39

40 Questions Is it wrong to use company for personal reasons? Is it unethical to blame an error you made on a technical glitch? Due to work pressure, have you ever abused/lied about sick days? Due to work pressure, have you ever taken credit for someone else s work or idea? 34 % Say Wrong 61% Say Ethical 11% Said They Have 4% Said They Have

41 Rationalizing Unethical Behavior Four reasons: 1. What I m doing is not really illegal. 2. My behavior is in everyone s best interests. 3. Nobody will ever find out what I ve done. 4. The organization will protect me.

42 The End

LAPLeadership, Attitude, Performance...making learning pay!

LAPLeadership, Attitude, Performance...making learning pay! LAPLeadership, Attitude, Performance...making learning pay! Emotional Intelligence LAP 123 Performance Indicator: EI:123 Student Guide Rules to Live By Table of Contents Do the Right Thing 2 Nature of

More information

Character Word of the Month

Character Word of the Month Character Word of the Month August September Excellence: The state of excelling and doing more than expected Positive Attitude: A feeling or way of thinking that affects a person's behavior October Responsibility:

More information

I don t want to be here anymore. I m really worried about Clare. She s been acting different and something s not right

I don t want to be here anymore. I m really worried about Clare. She s been acting different and something s not right I just can t take what s happening at home anymore Clare 23 mins Instagram When your friend is thinking about suicide I don t want to be here anymore... I m really worried about Clare. She s been acting

More information

For young people living with someone s excessive drinking, drug use or addiction

For young people living with someone s excessive drinking, drug use or addiction Taking the Lid Off For young people living with someone s excessive drinking, drug use or addiction When your mum, dad, or other family member has been drinking or using drugs, do they: Embarrass you?

More information

We admitted that we were powerless over alcohol that our lives had become unmanageable.

We admitted that we were powerless over alcohol that our lives had become unmanageable. Step One We admitted that we were powerless over alcohol that our lives had become unmanageable. Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) (2001, p. 59) Before beginning this exercise, please read Step One in Twelve Steps

More information

Feeling. Thinking. My Result: My Result: My Result: My Result:

Feeling. Thinking. My Result: My Result: My Result: My Result: Source of Energy [P]erception of Info [J]udgment of Info External Lifestyle Where You Process How You Inform How You Make How Others See Your Decision-Making Extraverted intuitive Feeling Judging Introvert

More information

We admitted that we were powerless over alcohol that our lives had become unmanageable. Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) (2001, p. 59)

We admitted that we were powerless over alcohol that our lives had become unmanageable. Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) (2001, p. 59) Step One 22 istockphoto.com/qingwa We admitted that we were powerless over alcohol that our lives had become unmanageable. Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) (2001, p. 59) Before beginning this exercise, please

More information

working with your doctor for depression

working with your doctor for depression tips for working with your doctor for depression 2011 www.heretohelp.bc.ca Talking to your health professional about depression is a very important first step. It s the beginning of your journey to wellness.

More information

The! Lie Detection Cheat Sheet!

The! Lie Detection Cheat Sheet! The Lie Detection Cheat Sheet By Paul Mascetta Welcome to the The Lie Detection Cheat Sheet. I realize this can be a touchy or even controversial topic. Listen, I m a firm believer in the power of positive

More information

Step One for Gamblers

Step One for Gamblers Step One for Gamblers We admitted we were powerless over gambling that our lives had become unmanageable. Gamblers Anonymous (GA) (1989b, p. 38) Before beginning this exercise, please read Step One in

More information

HANDOUTS FOR MODULE 7: TRAUMA TREATMENT. HANDOUT 55: COMMON REACTIONS CHECKLIST FOR KIDS (under 10 years)

HANDOUTS FOR MODULE 7: TRAUMA TREATMENT. HANDOUT 55: COMMON REACTIONS CHECKLIST FOR KIDS (under 10 years) HANDOUTS FOR MODULE 7: TRAUMA TREATMENT PARENT SESSION 1 HANDOUT 52: COMMON REACTIONS TO TRAUMA AND STRESS HANDOUT 53: MY CHILD S TRAUMA HISTORY CHILD SESSION 1 HANDOUT 54: PREVALENCE GRAPHICS HANDOUT

More information

Homesickness Advice for Parents (Advice for Campers on page 3)

Homesickness Advice for Parents (Advice for Campers on page 3) Homesickness Advice for Parents (Advice for Campers on page 3) For many Camp STIX campers, this summer will be their first experience with homesickness. But parents don't have to feel helpless when homesickness

More information

I m NOT Interested in Anything I m NOT Interested In!!

I m NOT Interested in Anything I m NOT Interested In!! I m NOT Interested in Anything I m NOT Interested In!! A Teenager s Guide to ADHD Booklet 1 In a Series Chesterfield County Public Schools I don t want to hear anymore about this ADHD junk!!! People won

More information

decisions based on ethics. In the case provided, the recreational therapist is faced with a

decisions based on ethics. In the case provided, the recreational therapist is faced with a Brackett 1 Kassie Brackett The Ethical Problem Professionals are faced with situations all the time that force them to make decisions based on ethics. In the case provided, the recreational therapist is

More information

When Ethics Take Flight MIYKAEL REEVE, CGFO & MATTHEW GARRETT, MBA, CGFO, CPM

When Ethics Take Flight MIYKAEL REEVE, CGFO & MATTHEW GARRETT, MBA, CGFO, CPM When Ethics Take Flight MIYKAEL REEVE, CGFO & MATTHEW GARRETT, MBA, CGFO, CPM Ethics Defined Generally The moral principles or values that govern a person or groups behavior or conduct. GFOA Adherence

More information

Question: I m worried my child is using illegal drugs, what should I do about it?

Question: I m worried my child is using illegal drugs, what should I do about it? Question: I m worried my child is using illegal drugs, what should I do about it? Answer: Many parents worry about whether their son or daughter is using illegal drugs and what they should do about it.

More information

Self-Esteem Discussion Points

Self-Esteem Discussion Points Self-Esteem Discussion Points 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. What does self-esteem mean? liking yourself being proud of things you ve done knowing how you re special and unique knowing you re a good person knowing you

More information

Ingredients of Difficult Conversations

Ingredients of Difficult Conversations Ingredients of Difficult Conversations Differing Perceptions In most difficult conversations, there are different perceptions of the same reality. I think I'm right and the person with whom I disagree

More information

The Wellbeing Course. Resource: Mental Skills. The Wellbeing Course was written by Professor Nick Titov and Dr Blake Dear

The Wellbeing Course. Resource: Mental Skills. The Wellbeing Course was written by Professor Nick Titov and Dr Blake Dear The Wellbeing Course Resource: Mental Skills The Wellbeing Course was written by Professor Nick Titov and Dr Blake Dear About Mental Skills This resource introduces three mental skills which people find

More information

Chapter 1. Dysfunctional Behavioral Cycles

Chapter 1. Dysfunctional Behavioral Cycles Chapter 1. Dysfunctional Behavioral Cycles For most people, the things they do their behavior are predictable. We can pretty much guess what someone is going to do in a similar situation in the future

More information

Working with Clients with Personality Disorders. Core Issues of All Personality Disorders. High Conflict Personality Disorders

Working with Clients with Personality Disorders. Core Issues of All Personality Disorders. High Conflict Personality Disorders Working with Clients with Personality Disorders AFCC Webinar July 18, 2018 Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. Copyright 2018 High Conflict Institute www.highconflictinstitute.com Core Issues of All Personality Disorders

More information

Sexual Feelings. Having sexual feelings is not a choice, but what you do with your feelings is a choice. Let s take a look at this poster.

Sexual Feelings. Having sexual feelings is not a choice, but what you do with your feelings is a choice. Let s take a look at this poster. Sexual Feelings It may be your first instinct to deny that your child will ever have sexual feelings. You may even do everything in your power to suppress those feelings if they do surface. You won t succeed

More information

AFSP SURVIVOR OUTREACH PROGRAM VOLUNTEER TRAINING HANDOUT

AFSP SURVIVOR OUTREACH PROGRAM VOLUNTEER TRAINING HANDOUT AFSP SURVIVOR OUTREACH PROGRAM VOLUNTEER TRAINING HANDOUT Goals of the AFSP Survivor Outreach Program Suggested Answers To Frequently Asked Questions on Visits Roadblocks to Communication During Visits

More information

Step Five. Admitted to ourselves and another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

Step Five. Admitted to ourselves and another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. Step Five Admitted to ourselves and another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. Our Basic Text tells us that Step Five is not simply a reading of Step Four. Yet we know that reading our Fourth

More information

Are You a Professional or Just an Engineer? By Kenneth E. Arnold WorleyParsons November, 2014

Are You a Professional or Just an Engineer? By Kenneth E. Arnold WorleyParsons November, 2014 Are You a Professional or Just an Engineer? By enneth E. Arnold November, 2014 1 What is a Professional Is a professional defined by: Level of Education Job Title Complexity of Job Description Salary Grade

More information

CAN T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?

CAN T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG? CAN T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG? Using the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator to Improve Workplace Relations Sara Vancil and Janet Dodson, Fall 2013 RMASFAA Preferences Can you sign your name? What is a preference?

More information

Practices for Demonstrating Empathy in the Workplace

Practices for Demonstrating Empathy in the Workplace Practices for Demonstrating Empathy in the Workplace These practices have been developed to help leaders at all levels to develop and demonstrate empathy. These practices, when employed in combination,

More information

Problem Situation Form for Parents

Problem Situation Form for Parents Problem Situation Form for Parents Please complete a form for each situation you notice causes your child social anxiety. 1. WHAT WAS THE SITUATION? Please describe what happened. Provide enough information

More information

Does the Metropolitan Police Service, and/or any other security service, have the legal right to conduct themselves in a prejudicial manner?

Does the Metropolitan Police Service, and/or any other security service, have the legal right to conduct themselves in a prejudicial manner? Freedom of Information Request Reference No: I note you seek access to the following information: Does the Metropolitan Police Service, and/or any other security service, have the legal right to conduct

More information

THE IMPORTANCE OF ETHICS IN EVERYDAY DECISIONS

THE IMPORTANCE OF ETHICS IN EVERYDAY DECISIONS THE IMPORTANCE OF ETHICS IN EVERYDAY DECISIONS Presented to Government Finance Officers Association Of Texas Fall Conference Presented by Dr. Raymond J. Clay, CPA Emeritus Professor of Accounting University

More information

LEAVING EVERYONE WITH THE IMPRESSION OF INCREASE The Number One Key to Success

LEAVING EVERYONE WITH THE IMPRESSION OF INCREASE The Number One Key to Success LESSON ELEVEN LEAVING EVERYONE WITH THE IMPRESSION OF INCREASE The Number One Key to Success 167 Lesson Eleven AREA 1 NAME AREA 2 NAME AREA 3 NAME KEY POINTS Riches, in the context of this program, refers

More information

The Speed of??? Robyn Roett

The Speed of??? Robyn Roett The Speed of??? Robyn Roett The Speed of Trust By Stephen Covey-Robyn Roett Trust Myths Myth Trust is nice to have - social virtue Reality Trust is hard-edged economic driver gives speed & low costs that

More information

The Power of Feedback

The Power of Feedback The Power of Feedback 35 Principles for Turning Feedback from Others into Personal and Professional Change By Joseph R. Folkman The Big Idea The process of review and feedback is common in most organizations.

More information

Autism, my sibling, and me

Autism, my sibling, and me ORGANIZATION FOR AUTISM RESEARCH Autism, my sibling, and me Brothers and sisters come in all shapes and sizes. They have a lot in common, and they can be really different from each other. Some kids even

More information

Why Is It That Men Can t Say What They Mean, Or Do What They Say? - An In Depth Explanation

Why Is It That Men Can t Say What They Mean, Or Do What They Say? - An In Depth Explanation Why Is It That Men Can t Say What They Mean, Or Do What They Say? - An In Depth Explanation It s that moment where you feel as though a man sounds downright hypocritical, dishonest, inconsiderate, deceptive,

More information

Hope & Spirituality Worksheets for People with Psychiatric Disorders Created by Marcia A. Murphy 2015

Hope & Spirituality Worksheets for People with Psychiatric Disorders Created by Marcia A. Murphy 2015 Hope Worksheets Hope & Spirituality Worksheets for People with Psychiatric Disorders Created by Marcia A. Murphy 2015 Facilitator s Guidebook Layout Supplies Needed: 3-ring binder Sheet protectors Computer/copy

More information

ORIENTATION SAN FRANCISCO STOP SMOKING PROGRAM

ORIENTATION SAN FRANCISCO STOP SMOKING PROGRAM ORIENTATION SAN FRANCISCO STOP SMOKING PROGRAM PURPOSE To introduce the program, tell the participants what to expect, and set an overall positive tone for the series. AGENDA Item Time 0.1 Acknowledgement

More information

Busineses Ethics 101: Why do People Cheat

Busineses Ethics 101: Why do People Cheat 1 2 3 Busineses Ethics 101: Why do People Cheat True or False? Ethics has to do with whether my feelings are right or wrong True but we must realise that sometimes our feelings can cloud are judgement

More information

Louie s Leadership Lessons Sept LOUIE S LEADERSHIP LESSONS: Quick Reference:

Louie s Leadership Lessons Sept LOUIE S LEADERSHIP LESSONS: Quick Reference: LOUIE S LEADERSHIP LESSONS: Quick Reference: [LOVE] 1 [OBJECTIVES AND GOALS] 2 [UNDERSTANDING] 3 1. We Communicate Differently 3 2. We Process Differently 3 3. We All Have Stuff In Our Backgrounds 4 PAWS

More information

Learn how to more effectively communicate with others. This will be a fun and informative workshop! Sponsored by

Learn how to more effectively communicate with others. This will be a fun and informative workshop! Sponsored by Assertiveness Training Learn how to more effectively communicate with others. This will be a fun and informative workshop! Sponsored by Lack of Assertiveness Examples Allowing others to coerce you into

More information

Controlling Worries and Habits

Controlling Worries and Habits THINK GOOD FEEL GOOD Controlling Worries and Habits We often have obsessional thoughts that go round and round in our heads. Sometimes these thoughts keep happening and are about worrying things like germs,

More information

2 INSTRUCTOR GUIDELINES

2 INSTRUCTOR GUIDELINES STAGE: Not Ready to Quit (Ready to cut back) You have been approached by Mr. Faulk, a healthy young male, aged 28, who has applied to become a fireman and has a good chance of being offered the job. His

More information

12 hours. Your body has eliminates all excess carbon monoxide and your blood oxygen levels become normal.

12 hours. Your body has eliminates all excess carbon monoxide and your blood oxygen levels become normal. Balance March 2018 What happens after the last cigarette? You know that smoking is one of the leading causes of preventable deaths but the process of quitting seems too daunting. After all, you ve tried

More information

Attention and Concentration Problems Following Traumatic Brain Injury. Patient Information Booklet. Talis Consulting Limited

Attention and Concentration Problems Following Traumatic Brain Injury. Patient Information Booklet. Talis Consulting Limited Attention and Concentration Problems Following Traumatic Brain Injury Patient Information Booklet Talis Consulting Limited What are Attention and Concentration? Attention and concentration are two skills

More information

From the scenario below please identify the situation, thoughts, and emotions/feelings.

From the scenario below please identify the situation, thoughts, and emotions/feelings. Introduction to Mental Gremlins: Example From the scenario below please identify the situation, thoughts, and emotions/feelings. Bob has been working for Big Corporation for 12 years and has his annual

More information

CHIROPRACTIC ADJUSTMENTS TRIGGER STROKE

CHIROPRACTIC ADJUSTMENTS TRIGGER STROKE CHIROPRACTIC I m sending this out for your information!!!! I can see his points on a lot of the issues. I was taught by an AWESOME Chiropractor that an adjustment bruises tissue and that it usually took

More information

I Can t Stand BOREDOM!

I Can t Stand BOREDOM! I Can t Stand BOREDOM! A Teenager s Guide to ADHD Booklet 8 In a Series Chesterfield County Public Schools 1 My biggest problem with school is boredom! Boredom is the Number 1 problem for people with ADHD.

More information

keep track of other information like warning discuss with your doctor, and numbers of signs for relapse, things you want to

keep track of other information like warning discuss with your doctor, and numbers of signs for relapse, things you want to Helping you set your brain free from psychosis. www.heretohelp.bc.ca This book was written by Sophia Kelly and the BC Schizophrenia Society, for the BC Partners for Mental Health and Addictions Information.

More information

Pain Notebook NAME PHONE. Three Hole Punch Here Three Hole Punch Here. Global Pain Initiative 2018 Ver 1.0

Pain Notebook NAME  PHONE. Three Hole Punch Here Three Hole Punch Here. Global Pain Initiative 2018 Ver 1.0 Pain Notebook Three Hole Punch Here Three Hole Punch Here NAME EMAIL PHONE Global Pain Initiative 2018 Ver 1.0 What is pain? Pain is a bad sensation that tells you something is wrong. Pain falls into two

More information

Class #5: THOUGHTS AND MY MOOD

Class #5: THOUGHTS AND MY MOOD : THOUGHTS AND MY MOOD CLASS OUTLINE I. Announcements & Agenda II. III. IV. General Review Personal Project Review Relaxation Exercise V. New Material VI. Personal Project I. Any Announcements? II. GENERAL

More information

Meeting a Kid with Autism

Meeting a Kid with Autism What s up with Nick? When school started, we had a new kid named Nick. He seemed a little different. My friends and I wondered, What's up with Nick? Turns out, Nick has autism. What is Autism This year,

More information

CBT+ Measures Cheat Sheet

CBT+ Measures Cheat Sheet CBT+ Measures Cheat Sheet Child and Adolescent Trauma Screen (CATS). The CATS has 2 sections: (1) Trauma Screen and (2) DSM5 sx. There are also impairment items. There is a self-report version for ages

More information

Chapter 14 Support for parents and caregivers

Chapter 14 Support for parents and caregivers 179 Chapter 14 Support for parents and caregivers All over the world, parents and other family members work very hard caring for their young children. And when a family has a child who cannot hear, there

More information

Choosing Life: Empowerment, Action, Results! CLEAR Menu Sessions. Substance Use Risk 2: What Are My External Drug and Alcohol Triggers?

Choosing Life: Empowerment, Action, Results! CLEAR Menu Sessions. Substance Use Risk 2: What Are My External Drug and Alcohol Triggers? Choosing Life: Empowerment, Action, Results! CLEAR Menu Sessions Substance Use Risk 2: What Are My External Drug and Alcohol Triggers? This page intentionally left blank. What Are My External Drug and

More information

You probably don t spend a lot of time here, but if you do, you are reacting to the most basic needs a human has survival and protection.

You probably don t spend a lot of time here, but if you do, you are reacting to the most basic needs a human has survival and protection. Emotional Eating Food Diary An emotional eating food diary will take some work on your part. You can dismiss it because you don t feel like doing it or you don t think it will help. However, if you choose

More information

Respect Handout. You receive respect when you show others respect regardless of how they treat you.

Respect Handout. You receive respect when you show others respect regardless of how they treat you. RESPECT -- THE WILL TO UNDERSTAND Part Two Heading in Decent People, Decent Company: How to Lead with Character at Work and in Life by Robert Turknett and Carolyn Turknett, 2005 Respect Handout Respect

More information

Recommendations from the Report of the Government Inquiry into:

Recommendations from the Report of the Government Inquiry into: Recommendations from the Report of the Government Inquiry into: mental health addiction. Easy Read Before you start This is a long document. While it is written in Easy Read it can be hard for some people

More information

Attitudes, Self- Concept, Values, and Ethics

Attitudes, Self- Concept, Values, and Ethics 3-1 3-2 Chapter 3 Attitudes, Self- Concept, Values, and Ethics McGraw-Hill/Irwin 2008 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved 3-3 Introduction Job satisfaction is based on attitudes, which

More information

University Staff Counselling Service

University Staff Counselling Service University Staff Counselling Service Anxiety and Panic What is anxiety? Anxiety is a normal emotional and physiological response to feeling threatened, ranging from mild uneasiness and worry to severe

More information

11 tips for real estate agents with ADHD

11 tips for real estate agents with ADHD 11 tips for real estate agents with ADHD Delegation, delegation, delegation are the three most important words BYRETT HARMON FOR INMAN.COM It s time that I come clean with a personal confession. I have

More information

Yes, you do have a choice. Understanding and using Choice Theory with clients Presented by: Dana Hampson, MBA, BCC, LPC-S The Balanced Life, LLC

Yes, you do have a choice. Understanding and using Choice Theory with clients Presented by: Dana Hampson, MBA, BCC, LPC-S The Balanced Life, LLC Yes, you do have a choice. Understanding and using Choice Theory with clients Presented by: Dana Hampson, MBA, BCC, LPC-S The Balanced Life, LLC What is Choice Theory? Theory developed by William Glasser,

More information

Living well today...32 Hope for tomorrow...32

Living well today...32 Hope for tomorrow...32 managing diabetes managing managing managing managing managing managing diabetes Scientific research continually increases our knowledge of diabetes and the tools to treat it. This chapter describes what

More information

A Guide to Help You Reduce and Stop Using Tobacco

A Guide to Help You Reduce and Stop Using Tobacco Let s Talk Tobacco A Guide to Help You Reduce and Stop Using Tobacco Congratulations for taking this first step towards a healthier you! 1-866-710-QUIT (7848) albertaquits.ca It can be hard to stop using

More information

What family members have told us about having HIV at home

What family members have told us about having HIV at home Family Matters Changing Lives Chapter 6 P1 The great indoors the family living with HIV HIV has brought us closer together. The most important part of the day is around the kitchen table for dinner. We

More information

Step 2 Challenging negative thoughts "Weeding"

Step 2 Challenging negative thoughts Weeding Managing Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTs) Step 1 Identifying negative thoughts "ANTs" Step 2 Challenging negative thoughts "Weeding" Step 3 Planting positive thoughts 'Potting" Step1 Identifying Your

More information

The Five Types of Fear

The Five Types of Fear Five Energy Dynamics in Action The Five Types of Fear "I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers

More information

WALES Personal and Social Education Curriculum Audit. Key Stage 2: SEAL Mapping to PSE outcomes

WALES Personal and Social Education Curriculum Audit. Key Stage 2: SEAL Mapping to PSE outcomes a WALES Personal and Social Education Curriculum Audit (based on the PSE Framework for 7 to 19 year olds in Wales, 2008) Key Stage 2: SEAL Mapping to PSE outcomes Personal and Social Education Audit; Qualifications

More information

Building Friendships: Avoid Discounting

Building Friendships: Avoid Discounting Module 3 Part 2 Building Friendships: Avoid Discounting Objectives: 1. Explore the relationship between stress and discounting. 2. Understand what discounting is and how it relates to stress in relationships.

More information

QUESTIONS ANSWERED BY

QUESTIONS ANSWERED BY Module 16 QUESTIONS ANSWERED BY BERNIE SIEGEL, MD 2 Q How do our thoughts and beliefs affect the health of our bodies? A You can t separate thoughts and beliefs from your body. What you think and what

More information

Assertive Communication/Conflict Resolution In Dealing With Different People. Stephanie Bellin Employer Services Trainer

Assertive Communication/Conflict Resolution In Dealing With Different People. Stephanie Bellin Employer Services Trainer Assertive Communication/Conflict Resolution In Dealing With Different People Stephanie Bellin Employer Services Trainer The Passive Communicator Often complain and feel they are being treated unfairly.

More information

2018/2019. The Luton and Dunstable Hospital Charitable Fund is a registered charity in England and Wales number:

2018/2019. The Luton and Dunstable Hospital Charitable Fund is a registered charity in England and Wales number: 2018/2019 The Luton and Dunstable Hospital Charitable Fund is a registered charity in England and Wales number: 1058704 Thank you for supporting the Luton and Dunstable University Hospital Charitable Fund.

More information

Managing Difficult Conversations Increase Satisfaction / Decrease Stress. BMC, 2015

Managing Difficult Conversations Increase Satisfaction / Decrease Stress. BMC, 2015 Managing Difficult Conversations Increase Satisfaction / Decrease Stress Why Do We Avoid Difficult Conversations? We don t want to make matters worse We fear we ll be attacked back We don t want to be

More information

Interacting with people

Interacting with people Learning Guide Interacting with people 28518 Interact with people to provide support in a health or wellbeing setting Level 2 5 credits Name: Workplace: Issue 1.0 Copyright 2017 Careerforce All rights

More information

Helping Your Asperger s Adult-Child to Eliminate Thinking Errors

Helping Your Asperger s Adult-Child to Eliminate Thinking Errors Helping Your Asperger s Adult-Child to Eliminate Thinking Errors Many people with Asperger s (AS) and High-Functioning Autism (HFA) experience thinking errors, largely due to a phenomenon called mind-blindness.

More information

Stories of depression

Stories of depression Stories of depression Does this sound like you? D E P A R T M E N T O F H E A L T H A N D H U M A N S E R V I C E S P U B L I C H E A L T H S E R V I C E N A T I O N A L I N S T I T U T E S O F H E A L

More information

Self Esteem and Purchasing Behavior Part Two.

Self Esteem and Purchasing Behavior Part Two. Self Esteem and Purchasing Behavior Part Two www.howtodoubleyourbusiness.com G: Hi Sharon, honey. S: Hi, honey. G: Well, I want everybody to know that Sharon and I just did a terrific recording and went

More information

Talking to someone who might be suicidal

Talking to someone who might be suicidal Talking to someone who might be suicidal To some it s a tea bag. To others it s a lifeline... Support the Zero Suicide Alliance campaign. Help us tackle the stigma that stops so many from asking for help.

More information

8/27/2018. Ethical Use of Power and Influence. Ethics. Activity

8/27/2018. Ethical Use of Power and Influence. Ethics. Activity Ethical Use of Power and Influence Ethics in the Office Activity What does ethics mean to you in the workplace? Ethics Comes from Greek word ethos which originally meant accustomed place or abode of animals

More information

Time for Change. The Challenge Ahead

Time for Change. The Challenge Ahead Time for Change The Challenge Ahead Who I am My name is Sir Stephen Bubb. I am the big boss of ACEVO. ACEVO supports the big bosses of charities and other groups. What this report is about This report

More information

An INSIDE OUT Family Discussion Guide. Introduction.

An INSIDE OUT Family Discussion Guide. Introduction. An INSIDE OUT Family Discussion Guide Introduction A Biblically- based tool to help your kids talk about their feelings using the popular Pixar movie. God made every person with the unique ability to feel

More information

Reframing Perspectives

Reframing Perspectives Page 1 Reframing Perspectives Reframing is an essential part of the coaching process as it helps others to see things differently and, as a result, come to different, more empowering conclusions or feelings

More information

Self-directed support

Self-directed support Self-directed support Mental health and self-directed support Self- directed support is for everyone who is eligible for social care funding. This answers some of the most commonly heard questions about

More information

When You re Down And Troubled:

When You re Down And Troubled: When You re Down And Troubled: Non-pharmacologic strategies for working with depression, anxiety, and other behavioral health issues By: Tom Bartol, NP bartolnp@gmail.com Twitter: @tombartol Objectives

More information

ON HOW TO DISCOVER YOUR CHILD S DEEPEST STRUGGLES WITH ANXIETY OR OCD

ON HOW TO DISCOVER YOUR CHILD S DEEPEST STRUGGLES WITH ANXIETY OR OCD ANXIOUSTODDLERSTOTEENS.COM ULTIMATE GUIDE ON HOW TO DISCOVER YOUR CHILD S DEEPEST STRUGGLES WITH ANXIETY OR OCD Getting Kids to Open Up T H E K E Y T O H E L P I N G K I D S W I T H A N X I E T Y A N D

More information

MINISTRY OF HEALTH MANATU HAUORA UNDER

MINISTRY OF HEALTH MANATU HAUORA UNDER MINISTRY OF HEALTH MANATU HAUORA UNDER MINISTRY OF HEALTH MANATu HAUORA Published in June 1999 by the Ministry of Health, Manatū Hauora PO Box 5013, Wellington ISBN 0-478-23548-8 (Booklet) ISBN 0-478-23549-6

More information

Information on ADHD for Children, Question and Answer - long version

Information on ADHD for Children, Question and Answer - long version Information on ADHD for Children, Question and Answer - long version What is Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder or ADHD? People with ADHD have brains that may function a little differently in some

More information

Participant Information Sheet

Participant Information Sheet Appendix A Participant Information Sheet for Young People Participant Information Sheet Exploring experiences of disclosure and non-disclosure amongst young adolescents who hear voices Hi. My name is Rachel

More information

What is Coaching? Coaches:

What is Coaching? Coaches: What is Coaching? Coaches: Help people set better goals and then reach those goals. Ask their clients to do more than they would have done on their own. Focus their clients better to more quickly produce

More information

The 5 Things You Can Do Right Now to Get Ready to Quit Smoking

The 5 Things You Can Do Right Now to Get Ready to Quit Smoking The 5 Things You Can Do Right Now to Get Ready to Quit Smoking By Charles Westover Founder of Advanced Laser Solutions Copyright 2012 What you do before you quit smoking is equally as important as what

More information

Tip sheet. A quick guide to the dos and don ts of mental health care and inclusion. 1. Ask questions. Practical tips

Tip sheet. A quick guide to the dos and don ts of mental health care and inclusion. 1. Ask questions. Practical tips A quick guide to the dos and don ts of mental health care and inclusion Much of the rejection felt by those in church with mental health problems comes from accidental actions and words, delivered with

More information

Clear and Easy #11. Skypark Publishing. Molina Healthcare 24 Hour Nurse Advice Line (888)

Clear and Easy #11. Skypark Publishing. Molina Healthcare 24 Hour Nurse Advice Line (888) Clear and Easy #11 Molina Healthcare 24 Hour Nurse Advice Line (888) 275-8750 TTY: (866) 735-2929 Molina Healthcare Línea de TeleSalud Disponible las 24 Horas (866) 648-3537 TTY: (866) 833-4703 Skypark

More information

DAY 2 RESULTS WORKSHOP 7 KEYS TO C HANGING A NYTHING IN Y OUR LIFE TODAY!

DAY 2 RESULTS WORKSHOP 7 KEYS TO C HANGING A NYTHING IN Y OUR LIFE TODAY! H DAY 2 RESULTS WORKSHOP 7 KEYS TO C HANGING A NYTHING IN Y OUR LIFE TODAY! appy, vibrant, successful people think and behave in certain ways, as do miserable and unfulfilled people. In other words, there

More information

M.O.D.E.R.N. Voice-Hearer

M.O.D.E.R.N. Voice-Hearer Debra Lampshire Presents The M.O.D.E.R.N. Voice-Hearer Background Hearing Voices since childhood Developed unusual beliefs Long periods in institutions Stayed inside house for 18 years Got voices under

More information

The Truth About Fitness, Weight Loss and Improving Athletic Performance by Kevin Quinlan

The Truth About Fitness, Weight Loss and Improving Athletic Performance by Kevin Quinlan The Truth About Fitness, Weight Loss and Improving Athletic Performance by Kevin Quinlan First of all, let me set your mind at ease I m NOT trying to sell you anything here! The purpose of this report

More information

HEPATITIS C LESSONS PART 4

HEPATITIS C LESSONS PART 4 PURPOSE To help group members understand who they should tell and who they may want to tell about their condition. Also includes strategies for telling people. FACTS ABOUT TELLING PEOPLE YOU HAVE HEPATITIS

More information

Paul Figueroa. Washington Municipal Clerks Association ANNUAL CONFERENCE. Workplace Bullying: Solutions and Prevention. for

Paul Figueroa. Washington Municipal Clerks Association ANNUAL CONFERENCE. Workplace Bullying: Solutions and Prevention. for Workplace Bullying: Solutions and Prevention for Washington Municipal Clerks Association ANNUAL CONFERENCE Paul@PeaceEnforcement.com 206-650-5364 Peace Enforcement LLC Bullying described: Why people do

More information

Teaching Family and Friends in Your Community

Teaching Family and Friends in Your Community 2 CHAPTER Teaching Family and Friends in Your Community 9 Old people can remember when there were fewer problems with teeth and gums. Children s teeth were stronger and adults kept their teeth longer.

More information

What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed

What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed There are no easy answers for helping someone struggling with depression, especially if you ve already tried and tried. Here are some tips from experts.

More information

What s your score? 350M 11/13 (DG3)

What s your score? 350M 11/13 (DG3) What s your score? Did you answer YES four or more times? If so, you are probably in trouble with alcohol. Why do we say this? Because thousands of people in A.A. have said so for many years. They found

More information

CAUSING OTHERS TO WANT YOUR LEADERSHIP

CAUSING OTHERS TO WANT YOUR LEADERSHIP CAUSING OTHERS TO WANT YOUR LEADERSHIP...for Administrators 2nd edition ROBERT L. DEBRUYN AUTHOR OF THE MASTER TEACHER Table of ConTenTs INTRODUCTION...vii Part one You and PeoPle ChaPter 1. What LeaDershIP

More information