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Outline for Presentation 1. What is Trust? 2. Consolidation and How this Idea Started 3. Fear 4. Trust 5. Suggestions for Building Trust in your Organization

Materials we will Give You Access to Later Today Bibliography of sources Copy of PowerPoint

Part 1: What is Trust

What is Trust? Reliance: confidence in good qualities, especially fairness, truth, honor, or ability Position of obligation: the position of somebody who is expected by others to behave responsibly or honorably Hope for future: hopeful reliance on what will happen in the future

Trust is all about Relationships!

Trust is conditional and fragile. -Dr. Roger Clarke

Trust, NOT MONEY, is the currency of any organization.

Why is Trust Important? In effective organizations, top leaders are able to gain faster results, build deeper relationships, and create stronger bottom lines (or service excellence) when they have developed the TRUST EDGE. -David Horsager

Levels of Trust Source: Dr. Linda M. Johnson 2nd Level of Trust You may speak for and represent me. 1st Level of Trust I only trust you when I can see you. Basement Level of Trust Street light theory of trust. Sub-basement Level of Trust Trust has been destroyed and rebuilding.

Trust, care, and help!

Character and Competence

Communication Expectations of Trust EXPECTATION ACTUAL Trust is measured by how close the actual product and the expected product match. Ted Gurr s Theory

Part 2: Consolidation

Trust and Consolidation Trust impacts us 24/7, 365 days a year 83% of mergers / acquisitions / consolidations fail because of issues related to people and cultural differences 50% of mergers / acquisitions / consolidations actually destroy organizational value The first casualty in a merger / acquisition / consolidation is trust

Trust and Emotions Acknowledge that work is stressful and emotions will be high at times. Realize that if someone is communicating with high emotions they do not feel understood.

Part 3: Fear and Anxiety

DEFINITIONS Fear-An intense emotion aroused by the detection of an imminent threat and which triggers a set of physiological changes. Anxiety-An intense emotion aroused by a potential threat which triggers a more intense response than is warranted.

ANXIETY FEAR For the purposes of this presentation FEAR and ANXIETY are considered approximately equal. They are two sides of the same coin. Both rev up the body and mind for...

Fight Flight

Some typical stressors that create ANXIETY and FEAR. Conflicts with Co-workers Negative work atmosphere Chemical Dependencies Lay-off / job cuts rumors Gossip Inadequate Physical Surroundings Unprepared for the job Family Issues Unreliable transportation Lack of recognition Favoritism Workload

And most of all FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN People do not simply resist or reject change they resist the UNKOWN. ~ Shifting Fears, Guiliano and Carillo

Stress and Fear are Cumulative

The Downward Spiral FEAR & MISTRUST Suspicion, rumination, paranoia Withdrawal Perceived threat to self / family Anger Fatigue Depression I quit, but forgot to tell you

Trust Tax When people or organizations step into a new role, they can also walk into a situation where there is a trust issue already in place and you now have to address that issue.

Redundancy Bureaucracy Politics Disengagement Types of Low Trust Taxes Churn (turnover of patrons or stakeholders) Fraud (dishonesty, sabotage, obstruction, deception, disruption)

W. Edwards Deming 14 Points of Management Point 8: Leaders have an obligation to drive out fear out of the organization, so that everyone may work effectively for the company.

Part 4: Trust

Low / Lack of Trust Low trust is the greatest cost in any organization. Regardless of reason (unethical behavior or fear) low trust creates: hidden agendas, politics, interpersonal conflict, interdepartmental rivalries, win-lose thinking, defensive and protective communication

The 8 Pillars of Trust

Pillar 1 Clarity: People trust the clear and mistrust the ambiguous

Clear Expectations and Communications

Pillar 2 Compassion: People put faith in those who care beyond themselves

Caring leads to trust! Four LAWS of Compassion Listen Appreciate Wake up / get engaged Serve Others

Pillar 3 - Character: People notice those who do what is right over what is easy

Without CHARACTER, there is no trust. Without trust, there are no followers. Without Followers, LEADERSHIP does not exist

TRUST: A constant Opportunity A constant Challenge Maintaining credibility and giving people a person, a leader, or an organization they can trust is a constant challenge in today s world.

Pillar 4 - Competency: People have confidence in those who stay fresh, relevant, and capable.

The only thing more expensive than education is ignorance Benjamin Franklin

Pillar 5 - Commitment: People believe in those who stand through adversity

Lots of People want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down. -Oprah Winfrey

Pillar 6 Connection: People want to follow, be around friends / good people

Doing, not saying, builds trust and connection.

Pillar 7 Contribution: People immediately respond to results

Contribution You must deliver to be trusted The more you give, the more your receive Give attention, resources, time, opportunity, and help Learn to say Yes!

What is reasonably expected of people is likely to be what they aspire to.

Pillar 8 - Consistency: People Love to see little things done consistently

It is the little things done consistently, that make the biggest difference.

Trust is confidence, distrust is suspicion!

Negative Intent When people are asked to interface, both often start with the assumption of negative intent. What s your hidden agenda? What s your real motive for being here? What are you trying to position?

Part 5: Suggestions to improve Trust

Leadership Today s leaders need to lead with both their hearts as well as their heads.

Ban the Hierarchy Transformation requires moving people out of their organizational boxes and ruts Encourage job rotation to enrich knowledge

Generate Reciprocity If you give trust to people and organizations, they tend to give trust back. True leaders will go first with extending trust.

Constructive Dissent Encourage constructive dissent If quick consensus on an important issue, acclamation means nobody has done the homework There should be some controversy

Two Halves Declare Intent: What and Why Both parties should agree to create a declaration of intent Include WHAT we want to do Include Why we want to do it

Make Trust an Explicit Objective Top leaders and organizations have learned that one of the most effective things they can do in declaring intent is to make the creation of trust an explicit objective. Trust is NOT a byproduct, but a targeted outcome!

Other Suggestions Challenge the gospel (no sacred cows) Disperse leadership across the organization Do not overcommit (and underperform) Evaluate your behaviors, do they increase or destroy trust Own up if something has gone wrong

Even More Suggestions Do not be too quick to judge, but quick to forgive. Get a handle on organizational gossip. Show with your actions, not just saying. Delayed decision making increases confusion and stress. Extend trust gradually (builds efficiency and effectiveness). Offer opportunities for accountability. Keep your promises.

Leadership Behaviors That Support Trust Humility leaders need to concentrate on doing what is right, not being right Courage leaders need courage to stand up for focusing upon what is right Choose Abundance there is enough for everyone Honesty always tell the truth Be Realistic - tackle the tough issues head-on Listen First don t be thinking about what you want to say Counterfeit Listening

The first thing for any leader is to inspire trust. -Doug Conant, CEO, Campbell Soup Company

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