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Five Dimensions of Conflict By Gayle Mertz and Carol Miller Lieber Fear is the path to the Dark Side Fear leads to anger anger leads to hate hate leads to suffering. Yoda (Star Wars, Phantom Menace) Lesson In Brief: This cooperative learning activity will introduce students to five basic dimensions of conflict that can be applied to any conflict situation. Time: Two class periods Materials: Handout 2-4a: Five Dimensions of Conflict Learning Outcomes: Introduced to basic concepts and vocabulary that will assist them in analyzing conflict situations and resolving conflict. Practiced mastering new information while working with a group of peers. Integrated new information and vocabulary learned into a presentation for peers. New Vocabulary: Intensity Global Transboundary Duration Frequency Intensity Affirmation Accommodation Avoid Diffuse Internal Duration Perception Restorative justice Capital Intra-group 2004 Educators for Social Responsibility Page 1

Notes and Suggestions: Mastery of these basic concepts will prove valuable to students as they work on subsequent lessons in this book, and in real life. Take time in this lesson to make sure students understand the concepts and vocabulary introduced here. They should be reinforced through additional activities and integrated into additional lessons. Lesson Sequence: 1. Write the Yoda quote from the top of this lesson on the board. Brainstorm what the statement means. 2. Reproduce enough copies of Handout 2-4a: Five Dimensions of Conflict so that there is one for each student. 3. Randomly create five groups of students, with an equal number of students in each group. 4. Assign one "dimension of conflict" to each group and ask them to read and discuss their "dimension." 5. Allow enough time to make sure everyone understands the concepts and vocabulary in their dimension. 6. Ask each group to prepare a skit that demonstrates the concepts and vocabulary introduced in their dimension. The skit should apply the information introduced in the dimension to a conflict situation. Each dimension is complex, so students might want to choose just a portion of it to demonstrate. 7. Each group should present their skit to the entire class. 8. Following each presentation, the entire class should be asked to critique the presentation and ask presenters questions to clarify how one might recognize the dimension of conflict their presentation focused on. Extension Activities: Have students perform their skits for another class, at a school assembly, or for a parent or community group. Ask students to write short stories about a conflict situation. Base the grade they receive for the assignment-in part-on how many vocabulary words from Handout 2-4a they used correctly in their story. A new movement in peacemaking is called "restorative justice." Its principles are often based on religious/spiritual beliefs and traditional community values. For example, Brulee Sioux tribal law is based on restitution and the importance of maintaining continuity in the community after a conflict. In other words, justice must 2004 Educators for Social Responsibility Page 2

not simply punish offenders but must enable the community to continue as a harmonious whole. Have students research restorative justice and apply it to different conflict situations as found in literature or newspapers. They could also perform a restorative justice role play/negotiation. This lesson is reprinted from Conflict in Context by Gayle Mertz and Carol Miller Lieber (Cambridge, MA: Educators for Social Responsibility 2001) 29. To order this resource, visit www.esrnational.org or call 1-800-370-2515. 2004 Educators for Social Responsibility Page 3

Handout 2-4a Five Dimensions of Conflict The five dimensions of conflict below chart a typical conflict, whether it is interpersonal or global. DIMENSION # 1: Who or how many parties are involved? Internal a conflict within oneself Interpersonal - a conflict between two or more individuals Intragroup a conflict within a group (Groups can be institutions, organizations, or any groups of people who share a specific role or identity.) Intergroup a conflict between two or more groups International a conflict between two or more nations Global a conflict that directly or indirectly has an effect on all people and nations in the world Transboundary a conflict between groups that is based on their positions in relation to a geographical boundary DIMENSION # 2: What are the sources of conflict? What is it over? Conflicts Over Resources (Human Resources; Things and Capital; Natural Resources; Land and Territory) o When people, groups, and nations are competing for the same resources o When there is a dispute over who has a right to certain resources o When people, groups, or nations want to take someone else s resources or prevent someone from getting needed resources Conflicts Over Values (Beliefs, Choices and Perspectives, and Preferences) o When people, groups, and nations have relations with each other, but hold different deeply held beliefs about the role of an individual, group or family within their culture, cultural practices, politics, and religion o Conflicts over what is most important Conflicts Over Psychological Needs (Power and Control, Emotional Needs) o Conflicts related to an individual s or group s need for respect, love, affirmation, approval, friendship, and power over their own fates o Conflicts related to the need of individuals to belong and have the opportunity to develop and achieve o Conflicts that arise when psychological needs are not fulfilled o Conflicts between an individual and other people or institutions when obstacles prevent someone from having their needs met 2004 Educators for Social Responsibility Page 4

DIMENSION #3: Relationships between/among conflicting parties. The type of relationship that exists between conflicting parties will often determine the intensity of the conflict and its outcome. Important questions to ask include: What kind of climate is present between conflicting parties? How can the climate change the outcome? Trusting or Suspicious Friendly or Hostile Open or Resistant Calm or Emotionally Tense Do parties come to the conflict with equal power or a power imbalance? Does any one party control the resources and decision making process? What is the degree of interdependence between the conflicting parties? (In other words, do the actions of one person or group seriously impact the others involved in the conflict?) o How often do the parties see or interact with one another? o Is a positive relationship valued equally by both parties? o Does each party need the cooperation of the other to achieve important goals? How well do the parties know one another? o Does the relationship matter to both or one of them? How much? o Does it matter if conflicting parties come from different cultures and know little about the other? DIMENSION #4: What is the history of the conflict?* Usually the longer a conflict exists, the more intense and complex it becomes, and therefore, the more difficult to resolve. Yet, there is also a point when parties can become so battle weary that they finally see resolution as the best strategy. Factors that complicate a conflict: The duration of the conflict. o How long has the conflict continued? o Are the original parties still actively involved in the conflict? The frequency of the conflict. o How often has the conflict reemerged? o Are there periods when the conflict escalated to severe levels? 2004 Educators for Social Responsibility Page 5

o Did this conflict develop in stages? The intensity of the conflict. o How life threatening is the conflict? o Is the conflict emotionally or ideologically charged? The perception of the conflict by both those directly involved and those who witness it but do not feel directly affected by it. o Do people see the conflict as serious or irrelevant? (Conflicts can remain unresolved when there is little or no pressure to address them when people from `inside or `outside the conflict don t perceive it to be compelling enough to resolve. Conflicts are not always visible, or easily identifiable. In these situations, the conflict remains, even though it is hidden from view or ignored. *The historical conflict between Israel and Palestine is a good example for discussing this dimension. DIMENSION # 5: The Process: How do we choose to deal with the conflict? In every conflict, all parties involved make choices to take some action they think will help them get what they want and need. These choices may be spontaneous or calculated, constructive or destructive. Conflicts can develop in stages and consequently may involve many different responses as the conflict proceeds. Some of those choices are: Avoidance deny, ignore, or back off the conflict Diffuse the conflict postpone, wait, gather data, or check it out Engage in the conflict methods might include: o Direct Force or Competition o Accommodation to adapt or adjust o Compromise o Use Collaborative Problem-Solving Practice Restorative Justice- valuing community continuity and well-being in the solution 2004 Educators for Social Responsibility Page 6