Stress Be Gone! (with PSTEC) Tim Phizackerley & Jeff Harding. Session 1 of 3

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Stress Be Gone! (with PSTEC) Session 1 of 3 Tim Phizackerley & Jeff Harding

Stress Be Gone with PSTEC 1 Copyright Notice ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. No part of this report may be reproduced or transmitted in any form whatsoever, electronic, or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any informational storage or retrieval system without express written, dated and signed permission from the author. Disclaimer The information presented herein represents the view of the author as of the date of publication. Because of the rate with which conditions change, the author reserves the right to alter and update his opinion based on the new conditions. The report is for informational purposes only. While every attempt has been made to verify the information provided in this report, neither the author nor his affiliates/partners assume any responsibility for errors, inaccuracies or omissions. Any slights of people or organizations are unintentional. If advice concerning medical or related matters is needed, the services of a fully qualified professional should be sought. This report is not intended for use as a source of medical advice. Any reference to any person or business whether living or dead is purely coincidental. Be sure to visit here by clicking to get all the instructions and tools you need to enjoy more joy and peace in your holidays and always

Stress Be Gone with PSTEC 2 Table of Contents SESSION 1 HEAD OFF STRESS BEFORE IT POPS UP... 3 HERE S THE PROBLEM... 4 A Common Problem Stress in the Moment... 4 SOMETHING IS IN YOUR WAY EMOTIONS... 5 JUST BE POSITIVE WAIT! NOT YET!... 6 Using PSTEC Positive... 6 Adding Positive at the Right Time... 6 HOLIDAY STRESSES... 7 Memories... 7 Common Holiday Issues or Stresses... 8 Imagined Events... 9 Be Aware... 9 COMING UP IN SESSION 2... 9

Stress Be Gone with PSTEC 3 Session 1 Head off Stress Before It Pops Up When you don't need to worry there'll be days like this When no one's in a hurry there'll be days like this When you don't get betrayed by that old Judas kiss Oh my mama told me there'll be days like this Van Morrison Days Like This

Stress Be Gone with PSTEC 4 Here s the Problem A Common Problem Stress in the Moment You are on your way to a little get together with several people maybe a hundred people or just 2 people the number doesn t matter and you are just a few minutes away from being there. Sure, you could force your way through and get the job done whatever that means but, it would sure be nice if you could just glide through the event, right? Or, at least, sweat a little less allow the pounding of your heart to slow down heck, imagine being able to enjoy the event and be at your very best or better? Shift your perception and you shift your experience. That s right; you can change this upcoming experience from one of anxiety, panic or nervousness to one that could empower you. You could create a new experience that builds your self esteem and could be the beginning of a life of confidence and personal peace. Do you have the wish to be your best in all situations, but it just doesn t seem to occur? First of all, don t feel so bad this is a dilemma for many people ok; let s be honest most people. What s the solution? Some other solutions will direct you to: 1. Just Be Positive 2. Keep affirming: There is no negative there is no negative 3. Avoid stressful situations. In other words, if avoiding or ignoring the barriers that get in the way of your true ability to live in peace and joy is not working for you try something else PSTEC provides you with unique solutions that are based upon results.

Stress Be Gone with PSTEC 5 Something is in Your Way Emotions If you have used PSTEC and the Click Tracks before, you know that focusing on memories and/or imagined events that cause emotional pain are a part of the solution. But, quite often people make the following statements or something similar: I am told to be in the moment focus on the now. If I should stay in the moment, why focus on the past and Click Track on that? I don t want to be negative and focus on the negative because, well, it just makes me more, you know, negative, right? Besides, I am uncomfortable thinking or even listening to the negative. I have heard that you can use PSTEC Positive, so why bother with the negative let s get on with the positive! We want you to consider using PSTEC in the most effective way possible because when you do we know you will create some extraordinary experiences. Will you achieve the exact experience you expected? We really don t know because your current expectations may be the result of old fears or thoughts but let s begin with just shifting how you feel about the upcoming event that is bothering you at the moment and then talk about outcomes and expectations. Consider this... There is a purpose to allowing traumas, nightmares and unpleasant feelings into awareness, but only to release them to discover that they are not real and that there are alternative perceptions of peace and joy. We are not advocating that we just think about the negative not at all. What we am proposing to you is that if you have underlying (or of course blatant) negatives running through your subconscious (and your conscious mind for that matter), it is very difficult for you to overcome those with just stating the positive.

Stress Be Gone with PSTEC 6 You can think of dealing with negative and positive perceptions in your mind in terms of a clean (positive) vs. dirty (negative) floor. Sure, you can just look at the clean spots on the floor and ignore the dirty spots and even declare, What a wonderfully clean floor. But, that does not make it clean and, in reality, you may even end up slipping in the dirt that is on the floor! When even misery, fear and shame no longer offer any juice, then they no longer terrorize us into compliance and we begin to wake in reevaluating even the unthinkable from an entirely different perspective. Just Be Positive Wait! Not Yet! Using PSTEC Positive You will be using PSTEC Positive very soon and we even have a Special Hypnotic Track for Eliminating Stress in Session 2 of this workshop, but using them at the right time will give you quicker, more effective and long lasting results! Before you move forward to using PSTEC Positive, consider the possibility that the reason people like to focus on the positive is often because they don t want to look at their past. Maybe it s embarrassing, or painful, or perhaps they would rather leave it under the carpet. However If there is a feeling or event that you would prefer to overlook, that is likely to be the feeling or event that needs to be addressed the most. Adding Positive at the Right Time Be gentle no need to change everything immediately. As mentioned previously with the dirty floor metaphor, it is much more effective to add some polish (positives) to the floor after you have cleaned up a dirty spot on the floor make sense? Let s start cleaning Here comes your first To Do List

Stress Be Gone with PSTEC 7 Holiday Stresses We are using the Holiday Stress situations as one example to expose the issues that get in your way of enjoying the season. Quite often, when you clear up the issues with holiday stresses many other stresses will clear up as well. This same type of process can be used for those other stressful issues whether they occur during the holidays or not but just with slightly different discovery of the specifics to clear and shift. Let s begin with Holiday Stress Memories We will begin with memories. 1. Review each issue on the Common Holiday Issues List on the next page, one at a time, and make a written note of which ones apply. 2. Next to each issue, get quiet, undisturbed, relax and imagine in your past this type of issue occurring when memories arise, write them down a. When did that issue last occur? b. Did it occur more than once when? c. When was the first time it occurred? d. When was the most intense time it occurred? e. Do you have a memory in that area that you wish had NEVER happened? 3. Next to each of those memories, rate the intensity of the emotion/feeling on a scale of 0-10 where 10 is the most intense and zero is no intensity. 4. Run the Click Track on each of those memories until the intensity is down to 0-1 for each one. You may have to run the CT more than once per memory. a. It can be quicker, most time, to begin using the Click Track on the earliest memories as well as the most intense memories. b. But, if you are uncomfortable with the most and earliest intense ones, you can begin and practice with some memories that are not quite as intense. Here are some common holiday, stressful issues

Stress Be Gone with PSTEC 8 Common Holiday Issues or Stresses More things to do (parties, shopping, wrapping, cooking, etc.) Days seem shorter Extra food Extra giving gifts, cards, etc. making sure my clients get something as well as friends, family being sure everyone is covered Extra activities Dealing with people I normally avoid End of the year crunches taxes Bookkeeping cleanup thank you cards More time off affects my regular flow and then I have to go back to my boring lifestyle I had it made in my regular life, now I ve got a ton of other things to do as well! I lost someone I used to spend Holidays with; now I m alone I miss them. Dealing with very crowded places. Parties / alcohol Pressure to conform Waiting in line / queueing Spending time with people I genuinely hate. (This can be a real problem in families and especially so where the likes of abuse has been covered up to save face) Cold weather and holiday season infections. Feelings of isolation & loneliness. Special Note Life is about relationships relationships to people, places and even things. When we survey PSTEC users, most of the issues, when it comes to stress, involves other people relationships. So, keep this in mind as you do your PSTEC Click Tracks When you get yourself right, then you can have your relationships right, then you get your world right. Relationships must be bottom line and basis of everything. You cannot achieve success alone in relationships. You must seek success for them as well!

Stress Be Gone with PSTEC 9 Imagined Events How to use PSTEC to head off any potential stresses coming up in your holiday schedule (yes, we actually schedule our stresses) using imagined events. This coming holiday (or other coming event), how do you feel about that event? Are there any unpleasant feelings about it above a zero? If so, use the Click Tracks on that imagined event (like you would a memory) until the unpleasant feeling is down to 0-1 intensity. Be Aware Be aware of memories as they come bubbling up from the subconscious and if the feelings with any memory is unpleasant, CT it and neutralize it. As you work on imagined events with the Click Tracks, memories may arise with intensity as well. Note those and after you do the Click Track on the imagined event, if there is still intensity in the memory or memories that come up, Click Track those as well. Coming Up in Session 2 ** IMPORTANT ** Be sure to take the time to release, clear and neutralize the unpleasant emotions and feelings for as many memories and imagined events prior to Session 2. Why? Because clearing the negative emotions will lay a strong foundation and make it much easier for you to put into effect your ability to manifest new experiences that you desire experiences of joy and peace under any circumstance!