Choices TABLE OF CONTENTS PAGE ABSTINENCE...1-2 OUTERCOURSE... 3 WITHDRAWAL... 4 CONDOMS: Male...5-7 CONDOMS: Female... 8 DUAL METHODS/FERTILITY AWARENESS METHODS... 9 BREASTFEEDING... 10 SPERMICIDES (Film, Foam, and Gel)... 11 IUDs (Copper IUD (Paragard ), Levonorgestrel IUD (Mirena ))... 12-13 SKYLA IUD... 14 THE GET IT AND FORGET IT METHODS... 15-16 NEXPLANON & IMPLANON IMPLANTS... 17 EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTION (Copper IUD and Oral Contraceptives)... 18-20 DEPO-PROVERA INJECTIONS... 21-22 PILLS (Combined Oral Contraceptive Pills and Progestin-Only Pills)... 23-24 PATCHES... 25 RINGS... 26 STERILIZATION... 27 SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS (Other Choices)... 28-29 Choices AT YOUR FINGERTIPS... 30-31 We wish you luck in making decisions about abstinence and birth control and hope you find this guide useful to you, your partner and your relationship. Your sexual health is an important part of your future! Robert A. Hatcher, MD, MPH Professor Emeritus of Gynecology and Obstetrics Emory University School of Medicine President, Bridging the Gap Foundation Sharon A. Rachel, MA, MPH Center of Excellence for Sexual Health Satcher Health Leadership Institute Morehouse School of Medicine Aimee M. Moynihan, MSEd, CHES Gynecology and Obstetrics Division of Family Planning Emory University School of Medicine Special thanks to Marsha Scott, NP, for the STI and Skyla sections of Choices; Peter W. Hatcher MD, in Portland, Oregon; John Stanley in Atlanta, Georgia; and Anna Handley, Anna Rappaport, and Amy Winter at the Rollins School for Public Health at Emory, for many suggestions that have been incorporated into the pages of Choices. COPYRIGHT INFORMATION Choices 2013 by Robert A. Hatcher, Sharon A. Rachel and Aimee M. Moynihan and Bridging The Gap Foundation. The extent to which this book and the Spanish translation of this book are used to help others is now in your hands. Although all rights are reserved, we encourage reproduction of this entire book or parts thereof without seeking permission, so long as you credit Choices and the Bridging the Gap Foundation. We authorize you to use the enclosed information, if you include the citation below. If you use material from this book, please indicate to readers of your publication that others may also reproduce or use that portion of your publication at no cost. Suggested formal citation: Hatcher, RA, Rachel, SA and Moynihan, AM. Choices. Tiger, Georgia: Bridging the Gap Foundation, 2013. ISBN# 978-0-9794395-3-7 Order at www.managingcontraception.com or call 404-875-5001.
www.managingcontraception.com Chapter 1 ABSTINENCE (Not Having Sexual Intercourse) On any given night, more people use abstinence than any other method of birth control! WHAT IS ABSTINENCE? Abstinence means different things to different people. To avoid sexual activity that can lead to pregnancy, abstinence refers to not having penis-in-vagina intercourse. For protecting against infection, abstinence means avoiding vaginal, anal and oral-genital intercourse or participating in any other activity in which body fluids semen ( cum ), vaginal fluids, blood, breast milk are exchanged with another person. Here, abstinence refers primarily to not having vaginal intercourse where the penis enters the vagina. Some people will use other kinds of touching to satisfy their needs (see the section on OUTERCOURSE - p. 3). Others will avoid any kind of touching because it is too tempting. Decisions about sexual intimacy are yours, each and every time. WHAT ARE THE ADVANTAGES? 8Abstinence is free and available to all. 8It is extremely effective at preventing both infection and pregnancy. 8It can be started or returned to at any time in one s life. 8Abstinence may encourage people to build relationships in other ways. 8Abstinence may increase the creativity in a relationship as partners find new ways to express intimacy and find pleasure with each other. 8Abstinence may boost your self-esteem as you are choosing what you consider to be right for yourself. 8Abstinence along with increased use of Depo-Provera and Norplant (no longer available) contributed to a fall in teen pregnancy rates in the 1990s. 8Abstinence has no medical side effects. WHAT ARE THE DISADVANTAGES? 8It may be very difficult to communicate clearly with a partner about abstinence. 8Some people find not having sex too frustrating, and may feel as though they are missing out if they choose abstinence. 8If you re planning to use abstinence and change your mind in the heat of the moment, you might not have birth control handy or may have little knowledge about other methods. 8Some people would like to be prepared and have a condom or spermicide available in case they change their mind. Others feel that having a contraceptive ready and available might tempt them. 8If only abstaining from penis-in-vagina intercourse, there may be no protection against infections transmitted through other activities such as oral and anal intercourse and genital touching ( mutual masturbation ). 8Abstinence-only sex education programs have been shown NOT to be effective. 1
WHERE CAN I LEARN MORE? What you do sexually is an important decision. Start by thinking it through carefully yourself. You may want to discuss your decision with another person whom you respect. You may want to pray, meditate, or talk it over with your partner. Some churches and sex education programs have organized support groups or teaching for young people wanting to wait until marriage before having sex. As with any contraceptive choice, you should decide to use it before you become sexually active. Abstinence is no different. Once you have thought it over and talked to another trusted person, clearly communicate your commitment to abstinence to your partner. If she or he does not agree with your decision, consider finding another partner who will also commit to abstinence as a choice. Four Time Frames in Which to Think About Abstinence: Virginity Abstinence until marriage or until a long term relationship or until you are sure that you are ready for sex. Waiting until marriage can prevent many complications from sexual intimacy and may be the approach an individual feels most comfortable with in terms of his or her spiritual or moral journey. Secondary Virginity After having been sexually active, a woman or man can return to abstinence until marriage or until a long term relationship or until you are sure that you are ready for sex. A person can always choose to return to this long-term approach to abstinence. You always have this option even if you have had sexual partners already. Abstinence for a while This could be until you are certain you are on an effective contraceptive, until both of you have been tested for and are not infected with HIV or any other sexually transmitted disease, or until your partner (or you) returns home from a long trip. Abstinence TONIGHT... TODAY... or NOW! Each night about 10 million women who do not want to become pregnant have intercourse. About 10% (one million) of those acts of intercourse are completely unprotected (no contraceptive). Abstinence today is what these one million women (and men) would be wise to use TONIGHT!!! Other options: use a condom, withdrawal or outercourse. (See next page.) If the person you re with uses physical or psychological force to get you to have sex, he or she is not the right person for you. See How to Pick a Boyfriend or Girlfriend on the back cover. 2
Chapter 2 www.managingcontraception.com OUTERCOURSE WHAT IS OUTERCOURSE? Outercourse, as opposed to intercourse, refers, in a playful manner, to types of sexual intimacy which do not involve the penis entering the vagina or anus. Some examples include: holding hands hugs kisses petting above the belt oral-genital contact petting below the belt mutual masturbation touching massaging WHAT ARE THE ADVANTAGES? 8Outercourse is always an option...there are no supplies needed and it is free! 8For couples who commit to outercourse, there is no worry about pregnancy. For many women, it may be more pleasurable (and even more likely to lead to orgasm) than traditional intercourse. 8No fluid is deposited in the woman s vagina. There is some protection, but not total protection, against sexually transmitted infections. 8There are no medical complications. 8Outercourse can increase emotional closeness between individuals. 8Outercourse may be a more acceptable practice in some cultures and in some religions. WHAT ARE THE DISADVANTAGES? 8Outercourse requires a lot of willpower for both partners. It requires communication to make sure both partners are committed to not having sexual intercourse. 8If vaginal sex does occur, the couple may not have any method of birth control or STD protection to fall back on. 8One partner or both partners may really want to have vaginal intercourse or one or both partners may be thinking: Is this going to go further than I want? These thoughts and concerns may decrease enjoyment. 8Oral sex can spread some sexually transmitted infections. 3