A FRAMEWORK FOR EMPOWERMENT

Similar documents
Paul Figueroa. Washington Municipal Clerks Association ANNUAL CONFERENCE. Workplace Bullying: Solutions and Prevention. for

ADDITIONAL CASEWORK STRATEGIES

How to Choose a Counsellor

Look to see if they can focus on compassionate attention, compassionate thinking and compassionate behaviour. This is how the person brings their

Choosing Life: Empowerment, Action, Results! CLEAR Menu Sessions. Substance Use Risk 2: What Are My External Drug and Alcohol Triggers?

Thoughts on Living with Cancer. Healing and Dying. by Caren S. Fried, Ph.D.

ORIENTATION SAN FRANCISCO STOP SMOKING PROGRAM

Finding a Loving Higher Power and Inner Parent That Works for Every Part A Workshop by John+

What You Will Learn to Do. Linked Core Abilities Build your capacity for life-long learning Treat self and others with respect

Mastering Emotions. 1. Physiology

APAGS TRAINING VIDEO: Working on Shame with Sexual Minority Clients Transcript

handouts for women 1. Self-test for depression symptoms in pregnancy and postpartum Edinburgh postnatal depression scale (epds) 2

Counselling Should: Recognize that behaviour change is difficult and human beings are not perfect

Step One for Gamblers

Living well today...32 Hope for tomorrow...32

Assertive Communication

YOU ARE NOT ALONE Health and Treatment for HIV Positive Young Men of Color

What is Self-Esteem? Why is it Important? Where Does Self-Esteem Come From? How Can You Boost Self-Esteem?

We admitted that we were powerless over alcohol that our lives had become unmanageable. Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) (2001, p. 59)

Lee's Martial Arts. The Five Principles. Principle #1: Preventive Defense. Principle #2: Awareness

Depression: what you should know

Setting Personal Boundaries

HOW TO STOP SELF-SABOTAGE

Session 1: I Can Keep Myself Healthy

This is a large part of coaching presence as it helps create a special and strong bond between coach and client.

What s Happening to the One. I Love? Helping couples cope with breast cancer

My Notebook. A space for your private thoughts.

We admitted that we were powerless over alcohol that our lives had become unmanageable.

Managing Your Emotions

Boundaries and Self-Awareness

Lidia Smirnov Counselling

Leadership Beyond Reason

support support support STAND BY ENCOURAGE AFFIRM STRENGTHEN PROMOTE JOIN IN SOLIDARITY Phase 3 ASSIST of the SASA! Community Mobilization Approach

Cognitive Self-Change: Thinking Controls Behavior THINKING REPORTS

LET S TALK about Sticking with your treatment plan

Reframing I can t do it

Motivational Interviewing

Problem Situation Form for Parents

MAKING PEACE & MOVING ON

Choosing Life: empowerment, Action, Results! CLEAR Menu Sessions. Adherence 1: Understanding My Medications and Adherence

Step Five. Admitted to ourselves and another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

Contents. Chapter. A Closer Look at You. Section 17.1 Your Personality Section 17.2 Develop a Positive Attitude. Chapter 17 A Closer Look at You

Sample Observation Form

STAGES OF PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT Developed by: Dr. Kathleen E. Allen

Key Concepts Guide. Rev. March 2015 Page 1 of 13

Controlling Worries and Habits

MAKING A JOY JAR DISCOVERING GRATITUDE DAY BY DAY

We teach the tools that are indispensable to learning

DAY 2 RESULTS WORKSHOP 7 KEYS TO C HANGING A NYTHING IN Y OUR LIFE TODAY!

Why Coaching Clients Give Up

Stories of depression

1. Sandra s Biography:

Power of Paradigm Shift

2015 NADTA Conference Pre-Education Committee Book Club Everyday Bias, Howard J. Ross, Suggested Group Discussion Questions

Yes, you do have a choice. Understanding and using Choice Theory with clients Presented by: Dana Hampson, MBA, BCC, LPC-S The Balanced Life, LLC

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

COPING WITH A CANCER DIAGNOSIS. Tips for Dealing with What Comes Next

Ten Strategies to Overcome Procrastination

Success is not getting back to normal. Success is accepting your new normal. You have been dealt a new hand of cards. How will you play them?

Group Session 14. Breaking Bad Habits My Five Rules My Action Plan for the Week Food and Fitness Diary (FFD) New Leaf Module Handout Success Stories

Prince George New Hope Society March 12 th, 2018

SIGNS of HEALTHY & UNHEALTHY BOUNDARIES in RELATIONSHIPS. Trusting no-one - trusting anyone - black & white thinking

Why Language Matters:

Support for Kidney Cancer

Examinee : - JOHN SAMPLE. Company: - ABC Industries Date: - December 8, 2011

Honest, Open, Proud. To Erase the Stigma of Mental Health Challenges. Sue McKenzie, MA Sarah Reed, PhD WISE

Foundations for Success. Unit 3

UW MEDICINE PATIENT EDUCATION. Support for Care Partners. What should my family and friends know?

keep track of other information like warning discuss with your doctor, and numbers of signs for relapse, things you want to

T E A M L E A D E R GUIDE

Florence Prescription

THE SOCIALABILITY QUESTIONAIRE: AN INDEX OF SKILL

Coping with sudden illness

Respect Handout. You receive respect when you show others respect regardless of how they treat you.

Is there any way you might be better off if you quit? What happens when you think about it? What do you imagine will happen if you don t change?

ME Project Handouts Weeks 1-6

How to Work with the Patterns That Sustain Depression

Self-Esteem Discussion Points

Worksheet # 1 Why We Procrastinate

Working with Public Officials

CAUSING OTHERS TO WANT YOUR LEADERSHIP

Pain Notebook NAME PHONE. Three Hole Punch Here Three Hole Punch Here. Global Pain Initiative 2018 Ver 1.0

Men and Sexual Assault

Usually we answer these questions by talking about the talent of top performers.

Integrating Community Youth (I.C.Y.) Work-Shop III

How to empower your child against underage drinking

Coaching for Emotional Intelligence

WORLD AIDS DAY HIV in the UK Let s End It. World AIDS Day is celebrated annually on 1st December. Produced by NAT (National AIDS Trust)

Louie s Leadership Lessons Sept LOUIE S LEADERSHIP LESSONS: Quick Reference:

QUESTIONS ANSWERED BY

Building Friendships: Avoid Discounting

Advance Statements. What is an Advance Statement? Information Line: Website: compassionindying.org.uk

I haven t been feeling like myself. lately. I tried to ignore it, but it won t go away.

TONYA LEWIS LEE IN CONVERSATION WITH FIVE INSPIRING WOMEN LIVING WITH HIV

Super Powers, Suicide, and Speaking Life. Angela Whitenhill, MDiv., LCSW

Options in HIV Prevention A Participant-Centered Counseling Approach

Newcomer Asks. This is A.A. General Service Conference-approved literature.

BRAIN BOOSTER WORKBOOK

Copyright 1980 Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc. Mail address: Box 459 Grand Central Station New York, NY

Limited English Proficiency Training

Transcription:

A FRAMEWORK FOR EMPOWERMENT What is an Empowered Person? Think about someone you know and admire. It could be a neighbor, a family member, someone you know from TV or the news. It can even be someone you imagine. What are the positive qualities of that person? Write down what qualities you believe an empowered person has: Some of you have stated that an empowered person is: Committed Organized Supportive Loving Good listener Patient Dedicated Loyal Fearless Empathetic Open-minded Has a plan Confident Joyful Non-Judgmental Intelligent (and uses it!) Motivated Wise Understanding Hard Worker Empowerment is a process of personal and group transformation that leads people to take greater control of their lives and their environment. This means that people also create and carry out their goals and aspirations. Empowerment requires being conscious of the social conditions under which people live, and their effects. It is not a one-time event. It is a constant process that happens over time. We can only empower ourselves; we cannot empower anyone else, but we can support other s empowerment.

CHIMES FOR EMPOWERMENT The following framework has been useful in creating a strategy in empowering oneself. Within this training series, we will come back to this framework in many ways. They re being presented in steps, called chimes. Some of the trainers who will teach the course will work with some of these chimes within the topics they are training in. They re called chimes like church bells, or those you hang in a window or fire escape which ring with the wind or the hours. Although they are presented in a particular order, they don t have to be practiced in that way. Address them in a way that makes sense to you. Have them ring in your thoughts and actions as you move through your day and your work. Empowerment requires a person to: 1. Have accurate and updated information 2. Value ourselves & celebrate our accomplishments 3. Make decisions 4. Understand the way power and privilege affect us and our work 5. Deal with the way we internalize disempowerment and privilege 6. Set realistic long-term and short term goals 7. Own our emotions 8. Define & Get Support 9. Build on Your leadership 10. Take action 1. Have accurate and updated information Having accurate and current information is key to anything we take on. As a CFW, having updated information on HIV/AIDS, on your clients, and the community resources available to them is vital. Knowledge also implies knowledge of self. Just as empowerment is an ongoing process, self-awareness is a lifetime task. We invite you to open yourself to learning about yourself as you gather new tools to do your work. What information do you have & need to do your work?

What information do you need to know to feel more empowered in your life and in your work? What information do your clients need? 2. Value ourselves & celebrate our accomplishments We live in a society that undervalues people, and emphasizes looking at what s wrong with a person, rather than at their strengths. People don t grow from being put down; they grow and develop from knowing their strengths and looking at their triumphs. Valuing yourself and your clients means expecting and giving complete respect. It means being willing to look at all that you have accomplished, even when it feels like you still have a long way to go. It will be a lot easier to communicate to our clients how important they are, if we are clear about how valuable we are. Some of my accomplishments: 3. Make decisions Life either happens to us or we make life happen. We can take the position that we have the power to make our own decisions. Sometimes we may make decisions about situations that we feel we have little choice. Sometimes someone else can help us see what our options are. In making decisions, it is important to consider the consequences of the decision and to remember that in most situations, there are at

least two options. We can decide which aspects of our lives and work we have control over and make the appropriate decisions. An Important Decision I am glad I made: A Decision I need to make: 4. Understand the way power and privilege affect us and our work Many of our institutions (the courts, the schools, the media) systematically disempower people everyday. People of color, women, lesbians, gay men, bisexual and transgendered people, poor and working class people, people with AIDS, are among some of the groups of people who have been (and still are) discriminated against and disempowered to have control over their lives. This discrimination takes the form of lack of access to (or inadequate) housing, health care, living wages, education, as well as having to be subjected to humiliations and violence; they are constantly having to confront the many stereotypes about the groups they belong to. People are discriminated against because of their race, their gender, their sexual orientation, their class, or their HIV status, and treated as lesser than those in the dominant group. If we don t examine the system that we are living and working under, then we could end up blaming our selves or our clients for their condition. What situations or institutions in your community support your empowerment?

What situations or institutions in the community support your clients empowerment? What situations or institutions in your community disempower you (take away your power)? What situations or institutions in your community disempower your clients? 5. Deal with the way we internalize disempowerment and privilege We internalize disempowerment when we act as if we are powerless; when we believe the negative messages our society gives us regarding the groups we belong to, we are internalizing disempowerment. This is also internalized oppression. Internalized oppression affects how we view ourselves and our abilities. It affects how we do our work, how we view our clients and their ability to help themselves and to change behavior. If we don t think and act as worthy, beautiful, intelligent, valuable, loving individuals, then we are in some way or another living under the influence of internalized oppression. On the other hand, it is important to understand that we also carry privileges with us that we may not be aware of. Noticing these privileges can make us more effective in working with others, and also taking responsibility for ourselves. If we have a job, we have privilege over people who don t, or are on welfare; as parents we have

privilege over our children; as men, we have privilege over women. As heterosexual people, we have privilege over lesbians, gay men, bisexual and transgendered people. If we are white, we have privilege over people of color. It is important to acknowledge the areas where we have privilege and be aware of any actions or beliefs we carry that contribute to keeping a group of people disempowered and to decide to change that. 6. Set realistic long-term and short term goals Sometimes it is difficult to think about the future when a person is dealing with dayto-day survival (if you re not sure where the next meal is coming from; or sometimes when someone is living with AIDS or another illness). However, if we are to carry out our dreams and aspirations, or simply, if we want to get our work done in an effective way, it s important to think of our long term goals. Depending on the situation, long-term can be in a week, in a month, or in five years. To write a goal, you need to: Define what you want to accomplish be specific Set a date by which you will accomplish your goal Some examples of goals may be: To get my GED or college degree by the Spring, 2005. To become a CMT by the end of the year. To assist Ms. Anderson to get an apartment by the end of the month. Once you write your goal, you need to break it down to bite-size pieces. If in a year, you will have completed this part of your education, and then what do you have to do in six months? In three? What do you have to do next week? Today? MY GOALS: 1. What do I want to achieve in a year in terms of my life /work? How will I get there?

2. What do I want to achieve in a month or in a week with one of my clients? How will I get there? 7. Own your emotions Most of us receive little of no training in how to deal with fear, disappointment, anger, and grief or any of our feelings. We need to recognize how we feel, and how it affects us, and decide to deal with our feelings in a useful way (talking to someone, writing, sports, prayer, sometimes getting help from a professional, etc.) 8. Define & Get Support People depend on one another in many ways. When we decide to live our lives and do our work as empowered people, then we need support to carry through. Keep in mind: What kind of support do I need: (a shoulder to lean on, a gentle push to do something that seems difficult, information, a phone call connection, someone to cook a meal, watch my kids, etc. ) From whom: (my co-worker, my partner, my friend, a health provider, a neighbor, a community service organization):

How do you help clients get the support they need? 9. Build on Your leadership You are already a leader. More people listen to what you have to say than you realize. As a CFW, you exercise some leadership within the community that you work in, and with your clients. If you are parent, then you are also a leader in your family. You probably have other leadership roles too. If you are going to accomplish what you set out to do, then you have to take leadership. Sometimes, we fall into leadership and don t even notice that we are doing it. Recognizing your leadership and deciding what steps you need to take next, will help you develop your leadership. Similarly, it is important to recognize where our clients are taking leadership, and encourage them to build from there. This can help them become more selfsufficient, and take greater charge of their lives. How do you take leadership already? Who is in your circle of influence? What are your next steps in developing your leadership?

How can you support your clients leadership? 10. Take action If we don t take action to carry out what we set out to do, then it s just a nice idea and we stay at the wishing stage. It s important to look at what disempowers us and our clients, and look at ways we can take action to move towards empowerment. Some actions might be very simple, can take little time, and can be done by an individual; for example, standing up for a client at HASA. Other actions might take groups of people and may take years, for example getting increased funding for AIDS medicines for people who don t receive Medicaid and who can t afford to buy them. Individual What actions do I need to take for myself to take greater charge of my life or my work? What actions do I believe my clients need to take in order to take greater charge of their lives? How do I help them define what actions they may be able to take on their behalf?

Family/community What do I need to do in terms of my community or my family to become more empowered? What actions might my clients need to take to become more empowered in terms of their families? How do I help them figure it out? Institutional Taking action for empowerment at the institutional level usually takes more people and a longer period of time. However, when these changes are accomplished, they usually benefit larger groups of people. These include changing laws or policy; providing greater access to services; or getting organizations to provide services in ways that are helpful and respectful of people. For example, the organizations who started using Harm Reduction techniques in the 1980 s to prevent the spread of HIV / AIDS, had to work hard to change policies to have a harm reduction approach to prevention and treatment be accepted by government HIV/AIDS programs. Today, not only are they receiving financial support, but are also being asked to teach others about this approach. What might I do in terms of taking action for institutional change?

What would be the change? Who else could support me or get involved? Conclusion Deciding to go to the next step of your empowerment isn t always easy. Yet the rewards are many. Start by noticing where you are already empowered, how you do your work in ways that helps your clients empower themselves. Then keep walking.