Smile, You re Saving Lives

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Smile, You re Saving Lives Lisa Starr, M.S. ASPCA Community Initiatives 1 Jennifer Dragotta, MS Ed ASPCA Community Initiatives

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3 Your stories

True or False?? When I took this job I said to myself, Gee, I would like to provide good customer service everyday. I think I will take a job at the local animal shelter. 4

True or False?? On this job, I have only positive interactions with the public. 5

True or False?? I have never had an interaction with the public where I became defensive, angry and aggravated or said things that I shouldn t have said. 6

Who are your customers? Adopters Pet owners lookie loos Microchip salesmen City officials Donors Homeless person who needs dog food Reporters Complainant Volunteers 7

Most challenging things customers have said or done 8

9 Us vs. Them

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11 Why do people get angry?

Why do people get angry? Feelings turn into anger, anger turns into hostility Negative feelings are precursors to hostile behavior Anger results when a customer feels put down, humiliated, judged, unimportant, etc 12

13 Customer Service Toolkit

Take charge of the things over which you have control.. Your own presentation (attitude, body language, attentiveness, tone of voice, etc.) Physical space (how neat, clean, and orderly is the environment you welcome people into?) Your integrity (are you being honest, forthright, and treating visitors consistently?) 14 Your humanity (are you being respectful, patient, open minded, and empathetic - and are you refraining from passing judgment

Who We Are FRIENDLY, OUTGOING NATURE GENUINE DESIRE TO FORM RELATIONSHIPS Photo courtesy of Emancipet 15

The 10-4 Rule If another human being is within 10 feet of you, you must make eye contact with him or her and smile If another human being is within 4 feet of you, you must make eye contact, smile, and verbally acknowledge him or her 16

..and be aware of those which you don t (but which you might be held responsible for nonetheless!) A visitor s presentation (their attitude, mood, body language, schedule, etc.) Existing policies History (between the individual and the organization, the organization and the community, etc.) The weather, politics, the economy, world events, a bad start to the day, etc. 17

Conflict Resolution Basics Come back to basic customer needs and do something to make the customer feel welcome, important and comfortable Listen with sincere attention. Acknowledge what they are doing right Speak in a low, calming voice Use a customer s name 18

19 It s not what you say, it s how you say it

Closed Questions Can only be answered yes/no Shuts down a conversation Often perceived as having a right or wrong answer 20

Examples à Do you have a fenced yard? à Can I help you? à Did you train your pet? 21

Open questions Narrative = invites a story à How would you describe that behavior in your home? à How can I help you? 22

Open questions Appreciative = à What are your dog s best features/qualities? includes positive or half-full assumptions à Tell me one of your favorite things about your cat? 23

24 Practice

Why is exceptional customer service so important? An unsatisfied customer will tell more people of his or her bad experience than a satisfied customer will tell of a good experience It takes three to five satisfied customers to reach the same number of people as one displeased customer Once they have experienced poor service, it is 12 times harder to convince an unsatisfied customer to come bck to your agency According to one study, 70% of customers leave a business because of a lack of attention from front line staff 25

26 What will you try?

www.aspcapro.org References Animal Friendly Customer Smart: People Skills for Animal Shelters, by Jan Elster Lisa.Starr@aspca.org Contact Information Jennifer.Dragotta@aspca.org 27

If you don t remember anything else from today www.aspcapro.org 28