Parenting Your Teen in 2016
Overview Peer Pressure Family Pressure Depression Coping Mechanisms
Peer Pressure 1. What is peer pressure 2. Who is affected by peer pressure? 3. In what ways are teens pressured today?
Types of Peer Pressure Acceptance and Fitting In
Types of Peer Pressure Pressure to be Perfect
Types of Peer Pressure Sexual Activity
Types of Peer Pressure Bullying
Social Media
Types of Peer Pressure Success
Family Pressure Family Expectations
Depression Some Interesting Facts 8.3% of adolescents show signs of depression More teens die annually from suicide than from all other illnesses combined. 1 in 5 have thought about suicide Every year 2 million high school students in the US make a specific suicide plan Girls are 2 x as likely to attempt suicide Boys are 10 times more likely to die from suicide attempts
Depression
Biology of Depression
Physical Symptoms of Depression Headaches & Migraines
Physical Symptoms of Depression Back pain
Physical Symptoms of Depression Miscellaneous muscle and joint pain
Physical Symptoms of Depression Chest Pain
Physical Symptoms of Depression Digestive Problems
Physical Symptoms of Depression Exhaustion and Fatigue
Physical Symptoms of Depression Sleep Disturbances
Physical Symptoms of Depression Changes in Appetite or Weight
Coping Mechanisms food cutting alcohol Pressure sex drugs
Statistics More than 100,000 U.S. deaths are caused by excessive alcohol consumption each year. Direct and indirect causes of death include drunk driving, cirrhosis of the liver, falls, cancer, and stroke. 40% of all suicide attempts are alcohol-related. 80% of all domestic disputes are alcohol-related. Alcohol is involved in 50% of all driving fatalities
Statistics In the United States, every 30 minutes someone is killed in an alcohol related traffic accident Over 15 million Americans have severe alcohol use disorders. 500,000 are between the age of 9 and 12. 40% of all suicide attempts are alcohol-related. 54% of all violent crimes are alcohol-related.
Emergency Room Visits 60% of all emergency room admissions are alcohol-related. 21.2 percent involved illicit drugs 27.1 percent involved nonmedical use of pharmaceuticals Cocaine was involved in 422,896 ED visits Marijuana was involved in 376,467 ED visits Heroin was involved in 213,118 ED visits Stimulants, including amphetamines and methamphetamine, were involved in 93,562 ED visits
Signs Your Loved One is Using Change in friends Change in style of dress Loss of interest in hobbies/activities/sports Lower grades in school More secretive-less communication than usual Increase isolation from family Skipping School Mood swings Money missing/need more money
Signs Your Loved One is Using Loss of interest in family activities Disrespect for family rules Withdrawal from responsibilities Verbally or physically abusive Sudden increase or decrease in appetite Disappearance of valuable items or money Coming home late or staying out without permission Constant excuses for behavior Spending a lot of time in their rooms
Signs Your Loved One is Using Lies about what they are going to do Lies about where they are going Lies about who they are doing activities with Finding the following: cigarette rolling papers, pipes, roach clips, small glass vials, plastic baggies, remnants of drugs (seeds, etc.) Loss of interest in learning Sleeping in school/class/work Poor work performance Not doing homework or working late more often Reduced memory and attention span
Signs Your Loved One is Using Smell of alcohol or marijuana on breath or body Negative, argumentative, paranoid or confused, destructive, anxious Over-reacts to criticism acts rebellious Doesn't seem as happy as they used to be Overly tired or hyperactive Drastic weight loss or gain Cheats, steals
Finding Help
Levels of Care Detoxification Intensive Residential Partial Hospitalization Intensive Outpatient Supportive Outpatient 12-Step Programs
12-Step Groups AA NA CA Al-Anon APG
CRAFT SCREENING TOOL Have you ever ridden in a car driven by someone (including yourself) who was high or had been using alcohol or drugs? Do you ever use alcohol or drugs to relax, feel better about yourself or fit in? Do you ever use alcohol or drugs while you are by yourself or alone?
CRAFT SCREENING TOOL (continued) Do you ever forget things you did while using alcohol or drugs? Do your family or friends ever tell you that you should cut down on your drinking or drug use? Have you ever gotten into trouble while you were using alcohol or drugs?
Self-Assessment CAGE Have you ever tried to Cut down? Have people Annoyed you by criticizing your drinking/drug use? Have you ever felt Guilty about your drinking/drug use? Have you Ever had a drink first thing in the morning to steady your nerves or to get rid of a hangover?
What Can You Do? Get help/don t minimize Talk about it Don t enable If it doesn t feel right it probably isn t