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Supervision for Following on from their article about coaching (TJ August 2010), David Birch and Erik de Haan argue that consulting is a distinctive field in its own right, significantly different to coaching and in some ways richer because of the additional layers of complexity Organisation have to work within an organisation while holding onto their outsider s perspective. Yet, as they engage with the client system, they gradually acquire an insider s perspective on the organisation s issues. Such a stance of being an outsider within is not straightforward at all and carries with it all sorts of temptations, risks and limitations 1. On the one hand, there is a risk that staying overly analytical and detached may result in observations, ideas and solutions that are more relevant for the consultant or for his previous clients than for the case in point. On the other hand, risk becoming over-involved if they identify too strongly with the organisation s agenda and issues, and can fall into the trap of trying to manage the situation. One could call this the dilemma of aloofness versus collusion. Supervision helps maintain a balance between these opposing risks and temptations. The supervisor stays as much as possible outside the client engagement, so he can freely observe, and comment on, what patterns or unconscious processes might be occurring within the clientconsultant relationship. Organisation often experience anxiety and stress as they try to balance a very diverse www.trainingjournal.com January 2011 63

Fig. 1: depiction of organisation development for one individual consultant portfolio with competing obligations to clients and colleagues. Supervision helps reduce the stress by helping the consultant reflect on, and understand, his own reactions and responses. The supervisor is in an ideal position to offer respectful feedback on a consultant s practice, based on an appreciation of the complexities and challenges that he faces. The degree to which specific patterns are picked up depends on an aspect of personality called personal valency 2. Valency refers to the way that individual supervisors or will often respond to quite different unconscious patterns, depending on their personality and life experience. Some patterns are observable and in our conscious awareness. Other patterns are picked up unconsciously and somehow stir us up, moving us emotionally in some way. Bion argues that this is because they remind us of patterns of relating from the past that we cannot quite allow ourselves to experience. Thus an individual supervisor can pick up important determining patterns (such as blocks to change or opportunities for change) that are normally below the level of conscious awareness, but are within their specific and limited spectrum of valencies. This is comparable to the phenomenon of resonance in physics, where an object can only pick up and amplify certain frequencies and not others. Supervision modalities The consulting supervisor and his supervisee can decide to work together in three different modalities. Each offers the potential for picking up organisational patterns. They are as follows: Individual consulting is focused on the individual consultant and his practice. The supervisor is not part of the organisational system and is therefore well placed to attend to the interplay of transference 3 between consultantclient relationships. Because the supervisor has no direct experience of the client environment, his impressions are shaped by the way the supervisee describes his work. By playing back what he is observing and how he is feeling, the supervisor is able to help supervisees explore assumptions and prejudices about their clients, their consulting practice and themselves. Roger is a consultant for a niche OD and executive education consultancy. The firm has five partners and 15 senior. Roger is seen as someone with partner potential, although this has not been made explicit to him. In, Roger talks about the dynamics within the firm, where the partners maintain an impression of always being in agreement. They meet every month and, although the whole firm knows when those meetings are, they don t know much about what is being discussed there. Roger regularly feels criticised by one of the partners, whereupon another partner stretches out a hand to comfort him. He also feels that he is in competition with one or two of the other senior, who are similarly aspiring to partnership. The work with clients can be intense, but having to face these putdowns and rivalries in the firm is much harder for Roger. As an outsider, his supervisor holds up the mirror in a way that helps Roger to appreciate his part in the dynamics more clearly. He learns how some of his own reactions are understandable in terms of his own family history, and from the fact that he feels quite exposed and vulnerable in the firm. Through his work in, Roger manages to keep a steady course, not to escalate any of the tensions 64 January 2011 www.trainingjournal.com

too far, and eventually he is invited to join the partnership. Compared to coaching 4, individual consulting (Fig. 1 left) affords greater scope for picking up patterns, as the consultant has been directly exposed to organisational dynamics and may even become relatively immersed within the organisation under discussion. Working as a shadow consultant 5 refers to supporting a consultancy project in an offline supervisory role. Like individual, there is no contact between the client organisation and the supervisor, who works in the shadow of the consulting team, attending to the resonances within it as it works on the. This system enables the supervisor to pick up still more patterns of transference/counter-transference, or what is often called the parallel process 6. In this way of supervising, the supervisor is usually attached to a team of on a specific project but shadow consulting can also take place in mixed groups of or within a consulting portfolio. A shadow consultant was supervising a team of change at a financial services firm. As the team session progressed, she noticed that, whenever the project leader was speaking, her mind wandered. Even when she forced herself to listen, she was only able to follow what he was saying for a few minutes. When others in the team spoke, she found it easier to concentrate. When the same thing happened during the next session, she decided to share her experience with the group tentatively, wondering whether this might be a reflection of their work with the organisation in some way. Several team members admitted that they too found it hard to follow their project leader s thought process. The leader was initially embarrassed but, with the help of the group, came to realise that his key client, the CEO, also struggled to communicate with his team. The supervisor pointed out that this was a classic example of a parallel process, in other words a replication of what was happening in the client system. The supervisor then helped the team think through how this insight might also be relevant to the CEO. This resulted in a profound shift in the team s effectiveness, as they learned to share what might have been construed as critical feedback. In shadow consulting (Fig. 2 below), the supervisor is exposed to a more complex dynamic than in one-to-one. In our experience, dynamics between in teams may reflect, or mirror, strong and unconscious organisational dynamics 7. Fig. 2: depiction of shadow consultancy for a team of OD www.trainingjournal.com January 2011 65

An individual supervisor can pick up important determining patterns that are normally below the level of conscious awareness, but are within their specific and limited spectrum of valencies Working actively as a peer supervisor within a consulting team This is when team members take it in turns to play the role of supervisor. The advantage of this approach is that the peer supervisor has his own direct experience of the client organisation, which means he can test certain hunches and ground them in the reality of his own experience. This may, however, compromise his ability to pick up on parallel processes. For us, the most effective method of peer involves the peer supervisor remaining somewhat detached from the work of his supervisees, making time and space for the meetings away from the client. It is particularly important for the group to establish a clear contract about the purpose and roles of, including issues of confidentiality. A team of 15 on a culture change project at a government department were grouped into five peer groups, or trios. Each trio met either face-to-face or via a teleconference once a fortnight, with colleagues taking it in turns to play the role of the supervisor. In one trio, a colleague was concerned about the management style of one of the senior client staff, which he felt was unnecessarily aggressive and bullying. With the help of his peer supervisor and the third member of the trio, he explored his reactions to the person, including his unacknowledged prejudice associated with the person s educational background. By expressing these feelings, he was able to empathise with the person and re-evaluate his critical stance. Rather than confront the person as he had been intending to, he decided that he would try to build a closer relationship with him and, if necessary, influence from a position of support and respect. In peer (Fig. 3 below), the supervisor has access to a still wider pattern of dynamics, including his own direct experience. The situation Fig. 3: depiction of peer for a team of OD 66 January 2011 www.trainingjournal.com

is richer but also messier, as the supervisor may be less clear about what he is picking up. Some form of external of the peer supervisors is particularly important as a means of grounding certain ideas and observations, and becoming aware of patterns that are no longer accessible. The shadow consultant and peer supervisor can pick up patterns that are sometimes four layers deep: organisational patterns that may mirror in individual client behaviour; patterns in the relationship between consultant and client; patterns between in the team; patterns directly experienced here and now by the supervisor. Having the free space offline and the supervisor attuned to patterns, many can be brought to the surface. Dilemmas for consulting supervisors Supervisors are frequently presented with dilemmas, many of which occur repeatedly with clients. One very common dilemma concerns the supervisor s valency or counter-transference. Which feeling should be attended to by the supervisor and what should he do with it? He may become aware of his counter-transference without necessarily knowing what it is about: he may feel unease, discomfort, distraction, displaced anger, boredom, or other feelings that seem real but may actually be a manifestation of the client/ consultant dynamics experienced by the supervisee. In other words, we feel the sensation in our antennae before we can even begin to make sense of the signal. And if we attend to the sensation, we become aware of the inadequacy of our measuring equipment, which is so strongly entwined with our own unresolved issues and transferential patterns. This dilemma begins as discomfort, then emerges as a choice whether to attend, and may become a huge doubt about whether what we feel is of any use to our supervisees. If we then move closer to reflecting back and communicating our observations, we can feel dilemmas about how direct we should be, or how tentative. Of most benefit to the client is usually to be both direct: concise, challenging and focused; and tentative: inviting reflections rather than opinions. Furthermore, when addressing new client material, we may feel unsure about how to set the tone. Is it more useful to our clients, and ultimately to the organisation, to work in an emergent way, or is it important to map every aspect of the case more actively, rather like an expert consultant? References 1. De Haan E Fearless Consulting Wiley (2006) 2 Bion W R Experiences in Groups Tavistock Publications (1961) 3 Ledford G E Jr Transference and counter-transference in action research relationships Consultation 4.1 pp36-51 (1985 Searles H F The informational value of the supervisor s emotional experience Psychiatry 18 pp135-146 (1955) 4 De Haan E, Birch D Quality control for coaches Training Journal August 2010 pp71-74 5 Schroder M The shadow consultant The Journal of Applied Behavioral Science 10.4 pp579-594 (1974) 6 Searles H F The informational value of the supervisor s emotional experience Psychiatry 18 pp135-146 (1955) 7 Hirschhorn L The Workplace Within Psychodynamics of Organizational Life MIT Press (1988) Similarly, we may have dilemmas around when should be cerebral and technical and when we should work more in a playful way, for example by recreating the organisation s dynamics in role play, two chair work, psycho-drama or organisation constellations. These ways of may provide a sharper lens on unconscious dilemmas within the client organisation, because it is harder for the supervisees to censor their material. Next, we have experienced dilemmas and concerns in terms of the role we play for the client organisations. Ultimately, the client organisation should be the main benefactor and the ultimate client of our work, but they are usually one step removed from the supervisory relationship. As supervisors, we have noticed that we struggled at times to be aware of our own engagement with the organisation. On the one hand, we know we need a certain level of detachment to work well but, on the other, we aim to have an impact on the client organisation. Conclusion In our view, these rich examples from practice demonstrate how consulting supervisors personal valencies enable them to pick up a host of parallel processes. They show that consulting is an exciting field capable of providing norms, learning and support for all those organisation that are straddling the boundaries of organisations. We are excited by the prospect of further development and professionalism of this field, so that it can take up its rightful place in the support and quality assurance of organisation and expert alike. Erik de Haan and David Birch are Ashridgeaccredited coaches and supervisors on the Ashridge MSc in executive coaching programme. They can be contacted at erik.dehaan@ ashridge. org.uk and david.birch@ ashridge.org. uk www.trainingjournal.com January 2011 67