Understanding myself and others. Evaluation questions

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Understanding myself and others Evaluation questions This series of questions is drawn from a programme, SPECTRUM which is available on EvaluationStore.com. The site includes evaluations at organisational, team and individual levels. These questions are from the SPECTRUM evaluation which is the basis of the individual and team behavioural evaluation reports. Allow regular time for silent reflection. Turn inward and digest what has happened. Let the senses rest and grow still This paper based version will not be dramatically different from other evaluations you may have completed (e.g. MBTI, DISC, firo-b, Insights, LIFO, SDI, etc there are over 30). It does have some additional nuances but the large differences will only be visible with the on-line version. John Heider Test version March 2010

There are many different ways to analyse your behaviour. Some are overly costly whereas some are overly simple. This SPECTRUM TM questionnaire will provide you with valid, relevant information that is understandable and well constructed. It will provide you with enough information to clearly analyse and consider your behavioural preferences and your impact on the people around you. Behaviour is the cornerstone of all our work and social interactions and is the very essence of being human. However, it is also the basis of a lot of our frustrations and anguish with others and confusion about our own contributions and impact. Therefore, in every walk of our life, knowledge about how we and others behave will allow us to be more successful due to the improved quality of our interactions. The ability to choose or adapt behaviour can generate a major increase in personal communication effectiveness. IMPORTANT: this is not a test. There are no right answers and no wrong answers. Human behaviour is usually a choice and we all have preferences regarding the choices we make. This evaluation merely seeks to identify the choices you make and the preferences you have. The report will then assist you to identify how this relates to others, how they may see your choices and also identify some possible alternative choices to make available to you. This evaluation has been devised by a number of practitioners who are qualified in a very wide range of behavioural and personality diagnostics with a view to generating an evaluation which removes the negatives and frustrations of the various existing models in the market and simultaneously adds some currently unused improvements. The finished article, SPECTRUM, was the work of many qualified and experienced people over 3 years.

It is important that you consider your context. We all behave differently in different contexts. Your context here is at work in your current role with your current team. It is also important that you answer each question as you feel you are or as you feel you do NOT how you would like to be or like to do. The questions are in the form of a statement with 4 possible answers. Mark all 4 answers on the scale of 1-10. 1 is I do this and 10 is I do this An example may be: = your mark of your score When trying to get my message across I use : a logical and structured method key points and hard hitting facts key principles and stress the benefits an entertaining & lively style The on-line version generates instant individual and team results but with this paper test version, please use the accompanying paper scoresheet.

1. When trying to get my message across I use a logical and structured method key points and hard hitting facts key principles and stress the benefits an entertaining and lively style 2. I intend to be seen as someone who is fair and generally very honest careful, analytical and thorough funny, charming and liked by everyone in control and influential

3. When I talk I tend to be direct, to the point and tell people what I think ask open questions and try to listen carefully try and entertain with a lively and witty style speak quietly, steadily and in an even way 4. I am attracted to others by how they stand out in a crowd and how they impress others the way they look, dress and behave the attention to detail that they have when planning or doing something the status or impact they have in meetings or at work

5. Others think I am a rational and practical person who is thorough a skilfully outrageous person who is fun an influential person who is in control a dedicated sincere person who is helpful 6. The impact I have on a group/team is as a caring and considerate person who is fair minded and a good listener lively person who brings a sense of enjoyment to most occasions driven person who is trying to win, complete tasks and be action orientated steady person who brings common sense and calmness to situations

7. When I face unwanted change I sulk and get a bit depressed stubbornly refuse to do it argue with anyone whom I disagree with ignore it and hope it will go away 8. When I am at the point of last resort, I try to befriend the enemy or use the crowd/others to help me isolate myself, become internally focused and very passive give in and/or back down emotionally stand and fight it out aggressively and determinedly

9. I am motivated by bonuses, promotion and winning steadily getting things done, correctly being liked and at the centre of things fairness, justice and doing what is right 10. in a group/team situation I want not to have an agenda, but to be led by gut feel and instinct to get on with it, fix things, set goals and start achieving to stick to an agreed agenda where I have had an input everyone to say their opinion and to be democratic, fair and open

11. I manipulate/influence others by helping them see what is fair and the best way to move forwards getting close to others and befriending influential people using power, force and a strong approach to persuade them limiting their choices and using logic to close down any arguments they have 12. Overall my behaviours are reflective, carefully considered and calm entertaining, witty and charming decisive, action orientated and to the point kind, considerate and honest

13. My overall impact on others is as a steady person who is a consistent performer dominant person who appears in control of situations and relationships reliable person who is dependable and there for them fun people person who is lively and entertaining 14. When analysing my performance I will ask others for their opinions before deciding how I have done set a challenging goal or target to beat next time compare what I have done before to my current performance ask others how I could improve

15. When a work relationship goes wrong I calmly state my views in an unemotional rational way tell the other person they are wrong and overpower them make fun out of myself and others hoping humour will relieve the situation listen to understand their feelings and hope for a reasonable outcome 16. In an argument I tell the other person exactly what I think use charm & wit to try and deflect the heat from the conflict state my position firmly with evidence and facts listen to their side of the story and then state my side, emotionally

17. If I am leading or managing a group/team I want to make it enjoyable and lively with flexibility and lots of change facts, figures and adherence to the rules and regulations to set goals and targets, delegate and I expect everyone to deliver everyone to be included and to progress once we have consensus 18. I would describe my body language as direct, with very strong eye contact excited, fidgety, and animated showing all my emotions openly reserved, closed, quite static and careful

19. In a team environment I will make people laugh and enjoy themselves seek to understand everyone else s point of view and try to be fair take the lead or at least express my opinions early sit back and assess, listening and digesting information 20. I feel uncomfortable when things are boring and predictable others are being hurt or accused my plans are changed at short notice my authority is undermined