THE TRUST TEMPERAMENTS

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THE TRUST TEMPERAMENTS

THE TRUST EQUATION T Trustworthiness = Credibility + Reliability + Intimacy Self-orientation In their 2001 book, The Trusted Advisor, authors David Maister, Charles Green and Rob Galford identified four key factors determining trustworthiness: Credibility (words and truthfulness), Reliability (actions and consistency), Intimacy (the ability to connect on a human level) and Self-orientation (focus on others v. self) These four factors were combined in the Trust Equation, as indicated in the graphic at the head of this article. Subsequently, Charles Green developed The Trust Quotient, a 20-question self-assessment, which helps individuals determine their own scores on the trust equation and gives them a guide for improving their own trustworthiness. Since the development of this tool ten years ago, over 70,000 people have taken the Trust Quotient, and Trusted 1 THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS

Advisor Associates LLC has used this growing database to enrich our understanding of trust. We theorized that individuals may have certain inclinations or comfortable tendencies when it comes to trustworthiness, relying on some of these factors more than others. Selecting the top two factor scores from an individual assessment yields six possible combinations: Credibility + Reliability Reliability + Intimacy Reliability + favorable (low) Self-orientation Credibility + Intimacy Intimacy + favorable (low) Self-orientation Credibility + favorable (low) Self-orientation These combinations of strengths form the six Trust Temperaments. THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS 2

TRUSTED ADVISORS THE SIX TEMPERAMENTS TEMPERAMENT C R I S EXPERT CATALYST PROFESSOR DOER STEWARD CONNECTOR THE EXPERT CR THE DOER RI THE CATALYST CI THE PROFESSOR CS THE STEWARD RS THE CONNECTOR IS 3 THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS

We then tested these six combinations with several client organizations familiar with the Trust Quotient Self Assessment, seeking to refine and clarify the profile of each temperament. Let s take a deeper look into each of the Trust Temperaments including what they are characterized by, what drives them, what may hold them back and how they overcome certain obstacles when it comes to building trust. THE TRUST TEMPERAMENTS THE EXPERT: C+R The Expert scores highly in Credibility and Reliability, the two hard factors in building trust. This person is relied on for expertise and follow-through. Experts care about what others think of their work. Experts are characterized by their reliance on well-earned expertise, and a reputation for solving the hard problems. They are often seen as the subject matter Experts. Chances are they did well in school, and enjoyed mastery of subjects within the rules; maybe they were the brain and they may still enjoy being the smartest person in the room. Experts are self-governing, and generally only make commitments they know they can deliver on they say what they ll do, and do what they commit to. Experts frequently love winning, and can be driven and competitive diplomas on the wall and the trophies in the trophy case are meaningful to them. THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS 4

If people think of you as reliable, informed, up-to-date and proactive, you may be an Expert. The downside Experts frequently may believe it s a virtue to be objective and analytical; keep in mind, however, that trust depends highly on Intimacy (the willingness to take emotional risks) and caring about others. And remember that expertise may at times come across to others as arrogance. Credibility lies as much in the delivery of information as having the information. Lead, follow or get out of the way. An Anonymous C + R Winning isn t everything, but the will to win is everything. Vince Lombardi 5 THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS

THE TRUST TEMPERAMENTS THE STEWARD: R+S The Steward is Reliable and has a low, or favorable, Selforientation (a high Other-orientation); others can count on them to do what they say, and to have other people s best interests in mind. Stewards care about fulfilling the mission, taking care of the organization. Stewards are characterized by the motto, Do whatever it takes to meet this mission. They may not go to sleep until their work is done. Their egos don t get in the way of the work, and they have equal concern for the team and the task. Stewards keep their clients interests top-of-mind, and achieve their goals through helping others achieve theirs. People appreciate that they can see both sides of a case and think from their point of view. Stewards skill in leadership comes from a willingness to serve rather than a desire to dominate. Other people don t worry that the Steward has a hidden agenda. They are generally seen as genuine, consistent, and dependable. The downside others may interpret the Steward s willingness and THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS 6

cooperative nature as a lack of ambition; in order to gain the most trust from those around them, Stewards need to be clear and vocal on where they stand. Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it s the only thing that ever has. Margaret Mead My goal wasn t to make a ton of money. It was to build good computers. Steve Wozniak THE TRUST TEMPERAMENTS THE DOER: R+I The Doer shows strength in Reliability and Intimacy, the hard factor of predictability in actions and the softer ability to relate to other people. Others will count on, and feel safe with, the Doer. Doers care about getting the job done. Doers may be characterized as kindly drill sergeants, tuned in to other people, but focused on getting them marching in the right direction to accomplish the task at hand. The Doer s style is probably very roll-upyour-sleeves in their actions and matter-of-fact in their approach. 7 THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS

For the Doer, my word is my bond, and it may hard for them to understand when others don t do what they promised. In a project management role, this is the Temperament which ensures that deadlines are met and budgets adhered to. The Doer will step up to organize a project, get things done, and make something happen, then work hard to see it through. Other people see them as grounded and often find them inspirational because of that. They trust the Doer s common sense. This is a person who will either have the answers or know where to get them. They may rely on one-to-one relationships to get things done. Because the Doer is very personable, others usually are willing to follow their direction. They may be seen as go-getters who stays on task and motivates others to do the same. Other characteristics are organized, dependable, sincere and predictable. They are, at their best, both understanding and understandable. The Downside Doers may be seen as manipulative or perfectionists, and may focus on the task at hand at the expense of seeing the overall goal. To broaden others trust, Doers need to be careful and thoughtful listeners as well. I have to be prepared to do what s necessary. And we won t know what that s going to be until we get there. I [am] staunchly invested. It is a joint project. Michelle Obama As for accomplishments, I just did what I had to do as things came along. Eleanor Roosevelt THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS 8

THE TRUST TEMPERAMENTS THE CONNECTOR: I+S Connectors care about other people. Connectors combine Intimacy with low Selforientation (a high Otherorientation.) Others may see a Connector as a people person and trust them because they know that the Connector cares about them. This doesn t mean, however, that all Connectors are outgoing or the life-of-the-party types. Connectors are characterized by magnetic and caring personalities, and they tend to accomplish things through working with others. Clients and colleagues know that Connectors really care about them, and that they can trust the Connector with their feelings and concerns. They are approachable and personable, and usually great listeners; people often disclose sensitive personal information to Connectors. Chances are that Connectors always know what s going on in the organization, and can find out who do go to on any issue. Connectors tend to have wide networks in every part of their organizations. Others will come to them to find out what s really going on. Connectors are great at disseminating information and taking the pulse 9 THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS

around the company. They may have invaluable insights for the leaders of the organization. The downside Connectors may be so focused on people and feelings that they hesitate to show their expertise or express their views. They can gain even great trust by showing a forceful side when they have expertise or opinions which contribute to the overall outcome of projects or experience. If trust is a risk, it s a risk I m willing to take. Oprah Winfrey It s not what you know, it s who you know. An Anonymous IS THE TRUST TEMPERAMENTS THE CATALYST: C+I The Catalyst combines Credibility and Intimacy; others trust their expertise and insights, and feel safe around them. Catalysts care about big issues, framing problems, and gaining insights. Catalysts are characterized by brainstorming and coming up with new ideas. Others count on them to frame issues in a clear and complete way and look to them for their experience and expertise. The Catalyst s ability to combine lively thinking THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS 10

with attention to other people makes them valuable members on any kind of team or in any problem-solving group. Catalysts spark new ideas, and then fit them into a context on the issue at hand. They may also be adept at eliciting ideas from others and incorporating them into a cohesive plan of action. Others often see Catalysts as a synthesizers and integrators strive to keep a group balanced and insure that everyone s thoughts are taken into account. Catalysts like to make up their own rules and measure their success against those rules; conventional wisdom is a challenge for the Catalyst. The downside Catalysts often depend on other people to follow through. They may find themselves often apologizing for missing commitments (maybe made in the enthusiasm of the moment) or may become easily bored. A genuine leader is not a searcher for consensus but a molder of consensus. Martin Luther King, Jr. The task of a leader is to get people from where they are to where they have not been. Henry Kissinger 11 THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS

THE TRUST TEMPERAMENTS THE PROFESSOR: C+S Professors score high on Credibility and have low Self-orientation. Others trust their expertise, and also trust that their self-interest is not a ruling factor in dealings with them. Professors care about their clients (or students ) success, and sharing ideas with them. They may also follow the idea itself, rather than its application. Characteristics of the Professor chances are that they love the content of your work, like thinking about it and exploring where it will go. Great ideas may sidetrack them from everyday tasks, but they never get sidetracked by ego or Self-orientation. Professors enjoy knowledge for its own sake rather than merely for what it can benefit you personally. They share their insights and expertise, often through more impersonal means of lectures, articles and books rather than mentoring or coaching. Chances are Professors are well-liked, even if other people don t feel they know them well. Professors gain respect from other people by sharing new thoughts THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS 12

and original insights. If their minds wander at times, it s always down an interesting path, and they are generous in sharing their journey. The downside a lack of Reliability, a key trust component, may diminish the trust of those around them if Professors miss deadlines or fail to complete part of a team project. And their tendency to pursue ideas may frustrate others trying to get things done. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. Albert Einstein Nothing in life is to be feared: it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less. Marie Curie 13 THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS

THE TRUST TEMPERAMENTS OCCURRENCE V. EFFECTIVENESS As may be expected, these six Temperaments are not evenly distributed across the 70,000 respondents, nor do they occur evenly within organizations. What may not be so clear is that the Temperaments are NOT all created equal when it comes to exhibiting trustworthiness and building trust with others. Most of the respondents taking the Trust Quotient assessment, from which this data is drawn, came to it through some kind of business connection, and the distribution may reflect that bias. Here is the frequency of occurrence among the Trust Temperaments : EXPERT 30% STEWARD 20% DOER 19% CONNECTOR 11% CATALYST 10% PROFESSOR 10% THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS 14

Next, we looked at effectiveness, as defined by the rank order of average TQ scores for each temperament. The effectiveness ranking is quite distinct from the distribution ranking. Doers, who combine the hard factor of Reliability and soft factor on Intimacy, rank the highest, followed by Connectors and then Catalysts. The factor all three of these Temperaments is Intimacy, indicating the key of making human connections and taking emotional risks, in building trust. When ranked by overall TQ score, or effectiveness, the Temperaments look like this: TEMPERAMENT EFFECTIVENESS DOER R+I 1 CONNECTOR I+S 2 CATALYST C+I 3 EXPERT C+R 4/5 TIED WITH STEWARD STEWARD R+S 4/5 TIED WITH EXPERT PROFESSOR C+S 6 15 THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS

THE TRUST TEMPERAMENTS CONCLUSIONS Trust Temperaments offer a fascinating look into our natural tendencies when it comes to building trust; these are our go-to strengths. At the same time, understanding others Temperaments and their comfort levels makes it easier and more productive to work with other people. Two things are important in understanding just how Trust Temperaments work. First is that just slightly shoring up our weak spots makes a big difference in how others trust us. We need not (and probably cannot), totally make over our own Temperaments. At the same time, anyone can work outside of her or his comfort zone when called on to do so. A Connector, for example, may become a taskmaster and lean on Reliability when charged with getting a project to completion. Or a Catalyst may tamp down her desire to come up with new ideas when the skills of a Steward are called for. This can become exhausting, however, when someone is required to constantly work in another way outside their own Temperament. THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS 16

THE TRUST TEMPERAMENTS ABOUT THE AUTHORS Charles H. Green, Founder As founder and CEO of Trusted Advisor Associates, I m passionate about crafting insights and ideas in ways that are memorable, and that allow people to change, beginning right now. I specialize in commercial relationships where people in one organization get paid to persuade other people, within or outside their own organization. That includes sales, and it includes advice giving, both internal and external. Kristin Abele, Director of Diagnostics As the Director of Diagnostics at Trusted Advisor Associates, I manage the Trust Quotient (TQ) assessment and the Multi-Rater Assessment (360), products of our diagnostics division. These tools offer an in-depth look at the trustworthiness of professionals and the organizations in which they work. I work directly with our larger clients, including Fortune 500 (and equivalents globally), as well as with higher education institutions. Sandy Styer, Client Manager In addition to working as general manager of Trusted Advisor Associates, I create and apply diagnostic tools to guide the success of Trusted Advisor clients. These tools such as the Trust Quotient quiz help people get at the root of questions that, when resolved, help people and organizations build more trust. 17 THE SIX TRUST TEMPERAMENTS

THE TRUST TEMPERAMENTS ABOUT US Founded in 2000 with a goal of empowering companies and individuals with knowledge and skills to foster those levels of trust, Trusted Advisor Associates literally wrote the book(s) on trust. An overview on Trusted Advisor Associates: We work with companies from Fortune 500 to mid-sized, and emerging firms check out our client list to see just who is benefiting from focusing on trust We begin by assessing your company s perceived trustworthiness, both internally and externally. We develop custom programs that identify areas for growth and cultivate proven relationship-building skills. Our list of services includes: individual and team sessions, workshops, online education, trust diagnostics, and public speaking engagements. Trust begins with the first business development call and lasts throughout the entirety of a given relationship. Make sure you and your company are properly equipped with the right skillsets to build trust fast and maximize your potential with clients and colleagues. 1-855-TRUST-01 (TOLL-FREE) INFO@TRUSTEDADVISOR.COM