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1 POSITIVE THINKING THINKING FIND HAPPINESS AND ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS THROUGH THE POWER OF POSITIVE THOUGHT GILL HASSON Bestselling author of Mindfulness and Emotional Intelligence
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3 Positive Thinking Find happiness and achieve your goals through the power of positive thought Gill Hasson
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5 Contents Introduction 1 Part 1 Positive Thinking and Positive Action 9 1 You Are What You Think 11 2 Moving on from Negative Thinking 37 3 Taking Positive Action 55 Part 2 Developing and Maintaining Positive Thinking 75 4 Finding and Keeping Motivation 77 5 Creating a Positive Mindset 97 6 Building Your Self-Esteem and Confidence 119 Part 3 Positive Thinking for Difficult Situations Dealing with Disappointments and Setbacks, Trauma and Tragedy Managing a Fear of Failure, Perfectionism and Comparing Yourself with Others 169 Conclusion 187 Useful Websites 191 About the Author 193 Index 195 iii
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7 Introduction
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9 What do you want? Why do you think positive thinking might help? Perhaps you want to start your own business, change your job or career, start a relationship, improve a relationship, travel the world. Perhaps you simply want to feel happier and more positive each day. Maybe you need some positivity to help you cope with a disappointment, setback or even a trauma or tragedy. Whatever it is, you may have decided that things need to improve and that what could help would be a more positive perspective and approach. You re right; a positive perspective and approach can help. But is there really power in positive thinking? Yes. The fact is, if you re not a positive thinker if you don t have a positive attitude there s not much that can make up for it. Money, education, talent and opportunities are 3
10 Positive Thinking all well and good but without positive thinking you can t really make the most of them. Other people can t be positive for you. They can be supportive and encouraging but then it s over to you. There simply is no substitute for having your own positive attitude. It gives you the motivation, energy and ability to succeed, it enables you to be happy and keeps you going through the toughest times. A positive attitude is the difference maker. So how can you get this difference maker in your life? This book will explain how. Part 1 introduces you to the concepts of positive and negative thinking. It explains that what you think and say to yourself can have quite an impact on what you can and can t do. Think positively and you ll feel able to manage and do well. Let negative thoughts take a hold, and you re likely to feel overwhelmed and powerless. So why, if negative thinking is so unhelpful to us, do we think in negative ways? Chapter 1 explains why. And there s a questionnaire for you to complete, which will give you an idea of just how negative or positive you currently are. If you are more inclined to think in negative ways, the good news is that once you re more aware of your negative thoughts, you re in a better position to disempower 4
11 Introduction them. In Chapter 2 you ll learn how to challenge negative thoughts and choose more helpful, positive ways of thinking. You ll also learn about a new approach a mindful approach which suggests that instead of challenging negative thoughts, you simply accept and let go of those thoughts and turn your attention, time and energy to the outcomes you would really prefer. Some people claim that positive thinking is unrealistic; that you can t get what you want in life simply by being positive and optimistic and suppressing or ignoring the negative aspects of life. It s true; that is unrealistic. It s unrealistic because positive thinking is more than a way to manage your thoughts positive thinking is about what you think and what you do. It involves being proactive. Positive thinking needs to be followed by positive action. Chapter 3 explains this. It explains what you can do to achieve your goals and get what you want and it explains how positive thinking can help support you in your efforts. Whatever it is you want to do, though, whatever goals you re aiming to achieve, it s quite possible that despite your good intentions, you either can t get yourself started or you ve got started but now you re flagging. Part 2 begins by explaining, in Chapter 4, a number of ways that you can develop your willpower and motivation and keep going. 5
12 Positive Thinking With positive thinking, what you re aiming for is to make it a habit. A positive habit. Chapter 5 has a range of ideas, tips and techniques for establishing a positive mindset. You ll discover that the more you train your brain to think positively, the more likely you ll have helpful, positive thoughts and beliefs that will soon become your normal way of thinking. Continuing with the theme of developing and maintaining positive thinking, Chapter 6 looks at the links between positive thinking, self-esteem and confidence. When your self-esteem is high, your thoughts and beliefs about yourself are positive; you feel good about yourself and you re more likely to believe that you can do things, things can turn out well and you can cope with setbacks. It s a helpful, positive dynamic where each aspect feeds into the other. Chapter 6 suggests a variety of ways that you can build your self-esteem and confidence and tap into that positive dynamic. So far, then, so good. But what if you re currently facing challenges and setbacks? What if you ve experienced trauma and even tragedy? How can positive thinking be of any real practical help? So much of how we handle problems depends on how we make meaning out of our experiences. Finding something positive in adversity doesn t mean denying how difficult or devastating the situation is, but it can help prevent you from being overwhelmed by the awfulness of it. 6
13 Introduction The final section of this book Part 3 looks at the role of positive thinking in a number of difficult and challenging situations. Chapter 7 looks at managing, amongst other things, disappointment, guilt, regret and tragedy. It emphasizes the need for courage the bravest, most intrepid form of positive thinking and explains that, whatever the circumstances, you can see possibilities and find hope in the most difficult of times. And finally, Chapter 8 looks at the sort of negative mindsets that can cause you stress and hold you back. It explains how to free yourself from, for example, a fear of failure and the unrealistic expectations that can often come with being a perfectionist. The same principles of positive thinking let go of negativity and instead focus on the positive apply throughout Part 3. You ll find that they re emphasized as a way of dealing with the times that you might be inclined to negatively compare yourself with others. A key piece of advice here is to see other people as role models to learn from and be an inspiration to you rather than see others as people who are better or have more than you. In fact, throughout the book you will read stories of people who have used positive thinking to achieve their goals and overcome difficulties. Hopefully, their stories will inspire you; inspire you to view yourself, your abilities and experiences in a positive light and to approach life and its challenges with a positive outlook. 7
14 Positive Thinking In the words of the writer Stephen King: You can, you should, and if you re brave enough to start, you will. So let s get started! 8
15 PART 1 Positive Thinking and Positive Action
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17 1 You Are What You Think
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19 Positive thinking vs. negative thinking Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will. Think positively and you re likely to enjoy positive results. Negative thinking, on the other hand, can lead to outcomes you d rather not have. Negative thinking undermines your confidence. It contributes to indecision. It defeats you. It beats you. It creates the bad luck that you ll later lament. Think positively and you ll feel able to manage and do well. Think negatively and you re likely to feel overwhelmed and powerless. What you think and say to yourself can have quite an impact on what you can and can t do, as shown by this simple exercise. Try it for yourself. You ll need another person to help. Part 1: Ask the other person to stand and extend their dominant arm out horizontally, at shoulder level so that their arm is parallel with the floor. 13
20 Positive Thinking Ask them to think of a time when they failed at something a test or exam or job interview, for example. Then ask them to think negative thoughts about themselves: I m weak. I m not as clever as other people. I m hopeless. I m pathetic, I m not good at anything. I can t do this. Ask the person to continue thinking the negative things. Tell them you are going to stand behind them and attempt to pull their dominant arm down to their side. Ask them to resist you pulling their arm down. Part 2: Now, ask the person to hold their dominant arm up again at the shoulders, parallel to the floor. This time, ask them to think of a time when they achieved something, succeeded and did well at something passed a test or exam, got offered the job, did well in a sport, for example. Then ask them to think of positive things about themselves: I try my best. I can do well. I feel good about myself. I am a good person. I am strong. I can do this. Ask them to repeat the positive statements to themselves while you attempt to pull their arm down to their side. Ask them to resist the pull. Typically, in the first part of the exercise, the person s arm is more likely to give way to your pull. Negativity overwhelms them and it s not easy for them to be strong. However, when the person s thoughts are positive, their body has the ability to resist the force that s pulling their 14
21 You Are What You Think arm down. They are more likely to stay strong and resist your pull. So what does this little experiment prove? It shows us the power of our thoughts over our bodies. When we think negative thoughts, we tend to zap our strength. When we have positive thoughts, we become stronger and are more in control. You are what you think. And what you think, you are. It s important to know, though, that neither negative thinking nor positive thinking is more real or true than the other. Either way of thinking could be real or true. But what does make one way of thinking more real is the one you choose to think and believe. As Shakespeare said, For there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so. Your thoughts can be understood as your self-talk or your inner voice. Your self-talk provides you with a running commentary rather like the constant text at the bottom of a 24-hour news channel. This self-talk directs your thinking and shapes your beliefs, expectations and actions. Self-talk has a way of creating its own reality. Telling yourself you can do something can help it happen. Telling yourself you can t do something can make it more likely to be true. And because your brain speaks with your own voice, whatever it says, it feels real and it feels true. 15
22 Positive Thinking To a greater or lesser extent, we simply accept particular beliefs and ways of thinking. That s all well and good if those thoughts are helpful and constructive. It s not so good if those ways of thinking are negative and produce thoughts and feelings that are unhelpful and selfdefeating. Positive intentions of negative thinking So if positive thinking is the most helpful, beneficial way to think, why do we think in negative ways? Let s start by trying to understand this. Negative ways of thinking are an aspect of emotions such as fear, worry, anxiety, disappointment, guilt, shame, regret, resentment and jealousy. Often, these emotions include thoughts such as I can t do that, I m scared, It s not fair, I m such an idiot, It s his fault, It s her fault, Nothing ever goes right for me and I wish I hadn t done that. We usually think of emotions like fear, worry, disappointment etc. as negative emotions. Why? Because they make us feel bad. And yet, these emotions, like all other emotions, do actually have a positive intent. Take, for example, the emotion of guilt. Typically, the thoughts that accompany guilt are I ve screwed up, I shouldn t have done that, it s my fault. I feel bad about what I did. 16
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