AL-ANON GR EXCHANGE. INFORMATION Found in your Service Manual

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1 AL-ANON GR EXCHANGE Welcome to Area Assembly! You are the most important people at the Assembly because you are the only members at the Assembly who have a vote at the business meeting. Your vote connects the members of your group to the worldwide fellowship of Al-Anon and determines the way Al-Anon in Montana functions to help families of alcoholics. You are a trusted servant who relies on guidance from a Higher Power and direction from the group conscious. It is a humbling and empowering experience. All of us on the Area Committee say CONGRATULATIONS on being elected to serve as a GR. Enjoy your term. What is the GR exchange? It is a meeting held at each Assembly to prepare GRs for the Area business meeting and to allow GRs to share information and experience, strength and hope with each other. My name is Carol Sullivan and one of my duties at Alternate Delegate is to chair this meeting. mtafgaltdelegate@gmail.com Please share your thoughts and ideas to help make this exchange meaningful and productive. INFORMATION Found in your Service Manual What is my job as a GR at an Assembly? To attend the business meeting and to express a voice and vote on behalf of your group. Which events on the Assembly schedule am I supposed to attend? GR Exchange gathering (GR school) Business meeting on Saturday, both morning and afternoon sessions. What do I need to take to an Assembly? Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual Pen/paper to take notes Copies of minutes from the previous Assembly. Available from your District Representative (DR). Can I represent more than one group at an Assembly? No. What will happen at the business meeting? The Area business meeting has a morning and afternoon session. You ll receive an agenda when you arrive at the business meeting. A typical business meeting includes the following items: Delegate s Report Minutes from the previous Assembly Area Treasurer s Report and budget Workshops put on by coordinators

2 Reports from Area Coordinators and DRs Update on Al-Anon events including Roundup and Assemblies Discussion of issues affecting Al-Anon in Montana How do I learn about issues that are coming up for a vote at Assembly? There are certain items that require a vote at every Assembly. Voting issues come out of discussions held the evening before the Assembly Area World Service Committee (AWSC) meetings. These meetings are attended by DRs and the DRs share that information at their District meetings. What if something comes up for a vote in the business meeting but I haven t had a chance to talk to my group about it? Most new GRs will struggle with this and the solution will come as you study the Traditions and Concepts of Service. Basically, Tradition Two says that you are a trusted servant and Concept Three allows you a right of decision as a trusted servant. There is an excellent discussion of this under Concept Three in the Service Manual. Usually the process of change in Al-Anon is slow and thorough so GRs are very prepared by the time an issue comes up for a vote. Another scenario is that you may have taken a group conscience at your home group about an issue, but then you learn new information at the Assembly that changes your opinion. Do you vote as your group conscience dictated or follow your own conscience? This again involves mutual trust between the group and its trusted servant. At an Assembly you are part of an informed group conscience and Concept Three allows you the freedom to make your best choice on behalf of your group. If you are really uncomfortable about a vote because you don t understand the issue or think it should go to the groups first, then say that to the Assembly before the vote is taken. Chances are others will feel the same way. What is the procedure for discussion/voting during the business meeting? During the business meeting the Chair will follow some basic rules of parliamentary procedure. When an issue comes up for a vote, the following steps occur: 1. A member of the Assembly makes a motion 2. Another member seconds that motion 3. There is discussion about the motion 4. A vote is taken, usually by a show of hands In Favor and Opposed. On elections or sensitive issues written ballots may be used. 5. The minority opinion is offered another chance to speak after the vote Motions can be tabled, which means they will come back up at a later time. A motion can be changed or rescinded by the person who made it. Sometimes the Chair will ask you to use the microphone to speak. There may be a time limit per share or a limit of one share per person on an issue. These restrictions are always announced ahead of time and they are usually imposed because of Assembly time constraints.

3 What is the voting structure of Al-Anon? WSC - All delegates meet annually for the World Service Conference (WSC). Since GRs elect a delegate, the voice of the groups is carried to the Conference. Delegates Information Area Assembly - Montana Area is made up of 13 districts. GRs elect a Delegate to represent them at the World Service Conference. Area has two AWSC meetings and two Assemblies per year. GRs Information District - Made up of groups in a geographical region. GRs elect a District Rep (DR) to represent them at Area World Service Committee (AWSC) meetings GRs Information Group - elects a GR to represent them at District and Area levels. Members Al-Anon s service structure can be confusing with all the acronyms and rules. Be patient with yourself and try to pick up a little bit at a time. Before long you ll be an expert! The chart above is a simplified view of how voting works in Al-Anon. The main point here is that as a GR you are a vital link in the flow of information, election of a delegate, and policy change affecting the fellowship. You are the bridge between the members and the whole Al-Anon service structure.

4 TOOLS In Al-Anon we always talk about using the tools of the program. What tools are available to help GRs do their jobs? Some examples are listed here. Sponsor Higher Power Traditions Concepts Long-time Members Service Sponsor 12 Steps District Meetings Al-Anon World Service Office website: MT Area website: Conference Summaries available on the WSO website Contacts The Area Secretary keeps track of the names and contact information for all of the members on the Area committee. During the term DRs will receive an updated contact list if anything changes. Your DR has a complete contact list of all the officers, other DRs and coordinators. Current Area officers Delegate Elaine Dotson Alternate Delegate Carol Sullivan Area Chairperson Connie Wine Area Secretary Lori Kascht Area Treasurer Pam Cunningham

5 A few spiritual principles to remember Three Obstacles to Success in Al-Anon pg 54 Service Manual All Al-Anon discussions should be constructive, helpful, loving, and understanding. In striving toward these ideals, we avoid topics that can lead to dissension and distract us from our goals. Conflict Resolution Using Our Twelve Traditions (S-72) Discussions of Religion: Al-Anon is not allied with any sect or denomination. It is a spiritual program, based on no particular form of religion. Everyone is welcome no matter what affiliation or none. Let us not defeat our purpose by entering into discussions concerning specific religious beliefs. Gossip: We meet to help ourselves and others learn and use the Al-Anon philosophy. In such groups, gossip can have no part. We do not discuss members or others, and particularly not the alcoholic. Our dedication to anonymity gives people confidence in Al-Anon. Careless repeating of matters heard at meetings can defeat the very purposes for which we are joined together. Dominance: Our leaders are trusted servants; they do not govern. No member of Al-Anon should direct, assume authority, or give advice. Our program is based on suggestion, inter- change of experience, and rotation of leadership. We progress in our own way and pace. Any attempt to manage or direct is likely to have disastrous consequences for group harmony. Group Conscience - pg 53 Service Manual The group conscience is the result of the group s business meeting discussions. The group conscience is the will of the group. The guiding principles for the group conscience are always the Twelve Traditions and the Twelve Concepts of Service. It may be helpful for the group to review these principles prior to any group discussions. Some simple group decisions may be decided quickly; however, others may take time. It is by taking the time necessary to hear from all members who want to participate that a group conscience evolves. In order to make an informed group conscience decision, members need access to all the information about the issue they are being asked to discuss, they need clarity on what their discussions hope to accomplish, and they are asked to trust each other s motives and capabilities. By sharing information as equals, taking time for discussion, and maintaining principles above personalities during the discussions, groups are often able to reach unanimity in their decisions. If unanimity is not reached in the allotted timeframe of the meeting, discussions may continue at another time. Once a group conscience decision is made, the entire group supports the decision. Use of Conference Approved Literature (CAL) in Meetings pg 102 Service Manual To keep Al-Anon s message in focus and encourage unity, only Al-Anon/Alateen Conference Approved Literature (CAL) and Al-Anon/Alateen service tools are displayed, distributed, and used at Al-Anon and Alateen meetings, including meetings at conferences and conventions. These items reflect the informed group conscience of the Al-Anon Family Groups as expressed by its World Service Conference since A.A. literature is not used at Al-Anon meetings because it is written for and from the viewpoint of alcoholics and is not Al- Anon/Alateen Conference Approved Literature. Reliance on opinions expressed in A.A. and other outside materials can distort the Al-Anon approach. Conference Approved Literature provides a unified view of Al- Anon/Alateen to members, professionals, other individuals, and outside agencies. (See Al-Anon Spoken Here [P-53], Why Conference Approved Literature? [P-35], and the Three Obstacles to Success in Al-Anon, as found in Alcoholism, the Family Disease [P-4] and Groups at Work [P-24].)

6 Acronyms and Common Terms Definitions are found in your service manual AAPP ADR AFG AGR AIM AIS AMIAS AWSC BN C CAL CMA CPC DR GR IAGSM ISR KBDM LDC LMD NCRD NERD NWRD ODAT PI/CPC PMA NWRD SERD SMR SWRD TEAM WSC WSO Area Alateen Process Person Alternate District Representative Al-Anon Family Group Alternate Group Representative Alateen Interest Meeting Al-Anon Information Service Al-Anon Member Involved in Alateen Service Area World Service Committee Motions before they were numbered Current Motion Conference Approved Literature Current Mailing Address Cooperating with the Professional Community District Representative Group Representative International Al-Anon General Services Meeting Information Service Representative Knowledge Based Decision Making Literature Distribution Center Last Maintenance Date North Central Regional Delegates meeting North East Regional Delegates meeting North West Regional Delegates meeting One Day At A Time Public Information/Cooperating with the Professional Community Permanent Mailing Address South Central Regional Delegates meeting South East Regional Delegates meeting Suspended Mail Records South West Regional Delegates meeting Together Empowering Al-Anon Members World Service Conference World Service Office COMMITTEE - Originating body. TASK FORCE - Temporary unit of people established to work on a single defined task or activity. They are the doers. THOUGHT FORCE - Temporary unit to research ideas and possibilities. They are the thinkers. WORK GROUP - Originating body assigned to pursue and implement multiple duties. (Long term)

7 References Literature guidelines downloadable on the WSO website: Starting an Al-Anon Group: G-12 Group Representatives: G-11 Group inventory: G-8 Cooperation between Al-Anon and AA: G-3 Pamphlets When I Got Busy, I Got Better: P-78 The Concepts Al-Anon s Best Kept Secret? P-57 Al-Anon s Twelve Traditions Illustrated: P-60 Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual Pages in index Group Representative Al-Anon and Alateen Groups at Work (section) Pages in index Anonymity pg Duties of Assembly Members (especially Group Rep.) pg History of Concepts pg Concept One pg Concept Three pg Leadership essay written by Bill W. pg Concept Twelve and the Warranties *Area 32 AFG Guidelines available online and by request in hard copy. Contact Carol S: mtafgaltdelegate@gmail.com AFG CONNECTS USER GUIDE AFG CONNECTS is a newly designed communication and sharing tool that does just what it says - connects AFG groups worldwide by providing discussion boards, document sharing and administration help. This link has a tutorial video for setting up your AFG Connects account. Contact WSO for your initial username and password. me at mtafgaltdelegate@gmail.com for a user guide printout format or questions. FOR QUARTERLY AL-ANON DONATIONS: District: Make check out to your district name, and mail or hand to your District Treasurer at District meeting. Area: Make check out to: Montana AFG. Send to: Montana AFG, 2800 N Montana Ave PMB 188, Helena MT WSO: Al-Anon WSO Corporate Landing Parkway, Virginia Beach, VA Reminder: Put AFG and your Al-Anon group # on checkbook as name of your group, for anonymity. Make sure the group number is in the memo area. Look in the AREA Guidelines for - how to open a checking account. 7