The Strengths Workshop. Steps to Living Your Callings. I am: Add Your Favorite Strengths. Overcoming Overload By Living Your Strengths.

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1 The Strengths Workshop Overcoming Overload By Living Your Strengths Notes Belonging to: Name Phone Steps to Living Your Callings PURPOSE & VISION ROLES ACCOUNTABILITY CALLINGS ISSUES, INFLUENCES & CONCERNS Goals Activities Dear God, I am: Add Your Favorite Strengths Page 1

2 P O : D Y S A: Describe your Strengths in your own words. How did you feel doing this? Me B: What past or present events, responsibili es or ac vi es made you feel strong? What Strengths do they reflect? Event or Ac vity Strengths Clues to your talents Page 2

3 C: Domains of Strengths: Mark your Domains in order of priority. What do you see? Executing Influencing Relationship Strategic Thinking Achiever Arranger Belief Consistency Deliberative Discipline Focus Responsibility Activator Command Communication Competition Maximizer Self-Assurance Significance Woo Adaptability Developer Connectedness Empathy Harmony Includer Individualization Positivity Analytical Context Futuristic Ideation Input Intellection Learner Strategic Restorative Relator D. Admit The Shadow of your Strengths. (Use the shadow list Page 4) Strengths Shadow Example Your Resume: Strengths Talents Adjec ves Knowledge, Skills, Experience Competency Shadow / Risks Page 3

4 Appendix : Strengths Shadow - Adjectives Achiever: workaholic, overcommi ed, ruthless, unrestrained Ac vator: intolerant, driven, stubborn, obs nate, impa ent Adaptability: submissive, reac onary, unreasonable, direc onless Analy cal: self-possessed, cri cal, nit-picking, never-sa sfied Arranger: cri cal, demanding, offensive, nonconforming Belief: dogged, eli st, stubborn, opinionated, dogma c, goody-goody Command: bossy, abrupt, inflexible, stubborn, insensi ve Communica on: garrulous, verbose, longwinded, talka ve Compe on: strong-willed, insensi ve, unresponsive, selfish, self-seeking, offensive Connectedness: idealis c, easy to take advantage of, adolescent, naïve Consistency: stubborn, disinterested, inflexible, uncoopera ve, unrealis c Context: closed-minded, unimagina ve, counterintui ve, inexperienced Delibera ve: aloof, withdrawn, introverted, unfriendly, me-waster Developer: naïve, unwise, unrealis c, easy to take advantage of Discipline: obs nate, rigid, mechanical, impersonal, detached, unrealis c Empathy: so, over-involved, gullible, suscep ble, naïve Focus: absorbed, intense, stressed, stubborn, single-minded Futuris c: dreamer, imprac cal, unrealis c, unreasonable, irra onal, misleading Harmony: irresolute, indecisive, weak, non-confronta onal, fla ering. Idea on: dreamer, unrealis c, self-absorbed, introspec ve, unrealis c Includer: indiscriminate, naïve, adolescent, gullible, unsystema c Individualiza on: overly-pa ent, indecisive, undiscerning Input: irresolute, indecisive, faltering, vacilla ng, slow to act, clu ered Intellec on: loner, bookish, smug, academic, non-produc ve, irrelevant Learner: bookish, uninspiring, unrelated, academic, non-produc ve Maximizer: picky, perfec onist, demanding, challenging, uncompromising Posi vity: insincere, naïve, superficial, superficial, dishonest, Pollyanna Relator: cliquish, clannish, plays favourites, disingenuous, hypocri cal Responsibility: micro-managing, perfec onist, s ckler, obsessive Restora ve: cri cal, puni ve, nega ve, destruc ve, focused on weakness Self-assurance: arrogant, conceited, proud, stubborn, persistent, self-righteous Significance: self-absorbed, needy, self-centered, insecure, apprehensive Strategic: disrespec ul, offensive, invasive, beli ling, impa ent WOO: stands for winning others over : fake, insincere, dishonest, shallow, compromising Page 4

5 P T : L Y C F: Roles are Your Callings. What roles do you love to play? Why? Different Roles for Different Times. Define Your Roles. G: People Define Your Callings. Who are : Your most important? Your teachable people? PEOPLE H: Issues: What issues ignite your passion? Why? Page 5

6 I: Your Strengths, Spiritual GiUs and Love Language. God made them all. Strengths Love Language Spiritual GiU J: What are the big rocks of your life? What do you plan to do? Batch Process it, Y EKL T E W GE D BU K: The power if low lying fruits? Marriage Paren ng Church Work L: Stewards Coach: Who do you coach? List two people you will share with... Notes: For the personal use of Strengths Workshop Par cipants Page 6

7 T S W E F D Yes, please send me the workshop books links and updates. To what extent do you agree with the following comments? I TOTALLY Agree Disagree 1) The subject was relevant to our needs ) The contents were appropriate for my work and life circumstances ) I understand how I can define my strengths ) What I learned could help me fulfill my life callings ) The content and structure were prac cal and easy to follow ) The presenta on pace and me were reasonable ) The presenter / facilitator understood our challenges and was well informed of the subject ma er Yes I am interested in: Applica on Small Group One on One Coaching If asked about this session what would you say? Comments / suggestions for improvement: YOUR CONTACT INFORMATION: (P L E A S E P R I N T) Name: Phone: Thank you for your very valuable input.

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9 VIP Thoughts and Tips For Discussion With: Thoughts Response / Tips Page 9

10 Application E- T I... M- W I... S Page 10