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1 r P ala G ew evi ed os ncl E HOPE S MESSENGER A SUCCESSFUL LIFE BALL DATES FOR WINTER PROGRAMS CLEVELAND 5905 Brecksville Road Independence, Ohio CORNERSTONEOFHOPE.ORG WINTER 2019

2 Larnie Jr., Saundra, Angela, Sherri, Diane, & Camden Zellner Sisters Share Love of Family and Cornerstone Angela and Saundra Zellner were featured as 2018 s Annual Fund Campaign Story Angela Zellner s Story When we lost my sister, Camie, I was not ready. Before she died, I planned to be STRONG if anyone close to me died. All of this was supposed to happen when I was older, not when I was in my 20s, and NOT to my sister who should have had years left with us! Camie was gone on February 26, 2016, and we had no warning, no time to say goodbye or I love you. We went through the motions of cleaning out her space and getting things in order before her burial. I tried to stick to my plan and be strong. As the weeks passed, I was isolating myself and would cry, be angry, and hate that Camie was gone. Everything changed when she died. For over a year, I sank into darkness. My sister told me about Cornerstone of Hope s services. I knew this was an answered prayer. I sat in the parking lot before my first appointment, wondering if I was making the right choice. I got out of my car, walked back numerous times, and finally made it inside. The journey was nothing like I had imagined. It was filled with tears, hurt, anger, guilt, shame, forgiveness, and love! Love because I could freely talk in my sessions with no judgment. I had begun my healing process. Saundra, Camden & Angela I wanted to give back to the place that gave me hope, just like Camie, with her kind heart, would have done. Moving through the grief, getting support, and being able start sharing my story with others ignited the healing. My journey of hope, love and support have sprung me from the darkness. I thank Cornerstone of Hope, who God knew would be there to support us during such a difficult time. Saundra Zellner s Story I am proud to be number five of six siblings, and that number was very much part of who I was. So when I received a call that my sister passed, my world caved in. Camden Elizabeth was 35, extremely intelligent, shy, and compassionate. Camie was gone abruptly, and for my close-knit family, it was traumatic. We found there were blood clots in her lungs suffocating her. After the funeral, life was not going to wait for me to get myself together. With five days bereavement leave from work, I was expected to step back into my life and function, but I was not ready. I would cry until 4:00am and get up three hours later for work. By 2017, I barely made it through the year and I didn t recognize myself. I searched for counseling options and heard Cornerstone come up more than once. My life had been at a standstill, and I desperately wanted someone to reassure me it was okay to keep living. TABLE OF CONTENTS Page 3 Pain to Purpose Page 4-5 News and Events Page 6-7 Upcoming Programs Page 8-9 Development News Page 10 Spiritual Update I found that Cornerstone was a space where I could safely fall apart and be put back together. The staff was kind, gentle and understanding. They let me grieve, provided tools, and encouraged me to receive love and move forward. I was comforted seeing people from so many backgrounds in the same place, receiving help and hope. Supporting Cornerstone means you are giving tangible hope to those who do not have the resources to make it on their own. To this day, I champion the organization because I do not want another person to go through grief without a place like this. Cornerstone helps lives start again and my sister and I are proof of that. We humbly ask you to support families like the Zellners by making a gift to this year s Annual Fund at cornerstoneofhope.org Page 11 Professional Programs All photos in this newsletter are property of Cornerstone of Hope and may not be reproduced, copied, transmitted or manipulated without written permission.

3 Pain to Purpose Retreat Friday, March 15 - Sunday, March 17, 2019 Jesuit Retreat House, Parma A weekend to grow in faith, hope and love through rest in the Holy Spirit and fellowship with others. Please join us for a hope filled weekend! What is the Pain to Purpose Retreat? If you are grieving the loss of a loved one, you understand all too well how debilitating grief can be. Yet, it is in those darkest moments when we may actually ask questions we never might have needed to ask before What is this life all about? Where am I going when this life is through? How can I see my loved one again? Join us for our 2nd Annual Pain to Purpose weekend where we intentionally encounter the journey of suffering together. This weekend will provide opportunities to meet others with similar losses, hear from inspirational speakers, share stories in a safe environment, spend quiet time in prayer, and transform that pain into purpose through our risen hope in Christ. BEFORE FEBRUARY 16th BEGINNING ROOM FEBRUARY 16th TYPE $325 $350 Original Building: Single room and communal bathroom on the floor with those of the same gender. Rooms contain one twin bed. $375 $400 Newly Renovated Building (20 beds available): Shared room with an assigned roommate and private bathroom. Rooms contain two twin beds. Registration fee above includes two night stay, evening of wine and hors d oeuvres, all meals and resources. For questions about the retreat, please contact us at Online registration is available at cornerstoneofhope.org. Can t Attend? You can also sponsor someone who you think would be interested in participating. Our desire to make the weekend affordable and meaningful for those participating will require us to secure sponsorships. Your recognition will vary depending upon your level of commitment. Please contact Lynne Robie at to learn more. 3

4 News & Events Welcome New Staff Patrick Milloy, Clinical Director Patrick Milloy, LPCC-S has joined Cornerstone as Clinical Director. Patrick came to us from EMERGE Counseling Services in Akron, where he served as a therapist working with clients experiencing problems with addictions, trauma and loss, and a variety of other mental health concerns. Prior to that, he served for 19 years at the Centers for Families and Children as a supervisor, program director and clinical director. He is an adjunct faculty member at Ashland Theological Seminary in the Clinical Counseling Program. Patrick has a Masters in Counseling from Gannon University and is a graduate of the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland. His professional interests include helping clients find healing in the midst of life s traumas, including grief and loss, abuse, and the struggle to redefine and find meaning in their relationships with God. Lisa Marks, Intake Coordinator Lisa Marks, LPCC, is a native of Parma, Ohio. She received a BA in Criminal Justice from Kent State University. From there she moved to Arizona to receive her Master of Counseling degree from the University of Phoenix in Lisa has 16 years of experience working in the field of mental health with children, teens, and adults in a variety of environments. She first became involved with Cornerstone of Hope by volunteering at God s Greatest Gift is You Summer Camp and the Pain to Purpose Retreat. She loved the mission of Cornerstone of Hope and the amazing services that were being provided, so she wanted to be a part of the wonderful work that is being done here to serve those who are grieving. Lisa became part of our full-time staff as Intake Coordinator in September Save the Date for Summer Camps Online registration will open in early 2019, please save the date for these upcoming camp programs! Camp applications will be available at cornerstoneofhope.org. Please note that first-time campers will be given priority should registration fill up. Camp Cornerstone June 10-14, 2019 from 8:00am to 4:00pm Cornerstone of Hope s office in Independence Camp Cornerstone is a day camp for children ages 6-12 years old. Camp Erin July 19-21, 2019 Beulah Beach in Vermillion, Ohio-New location this year! Camp Erin Cleveland was created and is supported in part by Eluna and is an overnight camp for children 8-17 years old. Please visit our website for detailed camp information along with new updates about Camp Erin and Camp Heroes. 4 cornerstone of hope a center for grieving children, teens & adults

5 News & Events Survivors of Suicide Loss Series Friday Night Series March 1st: Understanding Suicide Loss March 8th: Children, Teens & Suicide Loss March 15th: The Suicidal Mind March 22nd: Forgiving Your Loved One March 29th: Forgiving Yourself April 5th: Grief and Gratitude Workshops are held from 6:00-8:00pm. Light dinner will be provided, but you must register by the Wednesday before the workshop to attend at cornerstoneofhope.org. Cost is $20 per session or $60 for all sessions. Suicide has a devastating impact on families, friends and communities. We hope adults affected by suicide will join us for one or all of the topics in this new, Friday evening series held at Cornerstone of Hope s Independence office. Each part of this six-week series will focus on a new topic around a suicide loss with the goal of promoting healing and imparting hope to survivors. Please note that this series is for adults only. It is presented through a partnership between Cornerstone of Hope and Suicide Postvention Response Team, serving Cuyahoga County. About the Presenter Pete Bliss is Founder/Coordinator of the Cuyahoga County Suicide Postvention Response Team, which partners with the Cuyahoga County Medical Examiner s Office to reach out to those most immediately impacted by suicide loss. Pete regularly provides suicide prevention and loss response training for law enforcement teams, first responders and a wide array of other community service providers. Family Event Easter Pancake Breakfast Saturday, April 13, 2019 at 9:00am Cornerstone of Hope, Independence Our annual Easter Pancake Breakfast will include face painting, cookie decorating, craft-making, an Easter egg hunt, and of course a pancake breakfast! Come and enjoy a fun morning for the whole family. There is a cost of $20 per family to attend and includes all supplies and breakfast. All families who are grieving, whether or not they have used Cornerstone s services, are welcome to attend. Children may not attend workshops on their own. Register and pay online at cornerstoneofhope.org. Please RSVP by April 5, 2019.

6 Support Groups Upcoming Support Groups Cornerstone s groups run quarterly and are free of cost to attend. Group participants must be four months from the date of their loss. Registration is required and a mandatory intake meeting must be completed prior to December 14th for Winter and March 15th for Spring. Please call to schedule an intake meeting. STEPPING STONES INTRODUCTION MEETING: An informative group session for adults looking to explore the early grief journey. Open to those who are in the first year of loss and are new to Cornerstone of Hope s support group program. Refreshments provided. You can register for one of these meetings by visiting cornerstoneofhope.org Monday, February 4 from 6:00-8:00pm Monday, April 29 from 6:00-8:00pm ACCIDENTAL OVERDOSE LOSS SUPPORT GROUP: This group brings together people who have experienced similar losses, offers education about the addiction process, provides support for the numerous emotional reactions to this particular loss, and shares helpful insight into moving forward with hope. Dinner is provided. Thursdays, January 10 - March 14 from 6:00-8:00pm Thursdays, April 4 - June 6 from 6:00-8:00pm ADULT GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP: Giving and receiving support while learning about the grieving process can help us begin to heal. This group is appropriate for adults who are grieving the death of a loved one, relative, close friend, cherished co-worker or anyone else with an important role in their lives. Dinner is provided on Wednesdays and light refreshments on Fridays. Wednesdays, January 9 - March 13 from 6:00-8:00pm Fridays, January 11 - March 15 from 1:00-3:00pm Wednesdays, April 3 - June 5 from 6:00-8:00pm Fridays, April 5 - June 21 from 1:00-3:00pm CHILD LOSS SUPPORT GROUP: The death of a child leaves parents feeling brokenhearted and alone. This group brings parents together, no matter the age of the child, to share and find hope on their journey. Dinner is provided. Wednesdays, January 9 - March 13 from 6:00-8:00pm Wednesdays, April 3 - June 5 from 6:00-8:00pm COMPLICATED LOSS SUPPORT GROUP: Sometimes there are individuals in our lives who are hard to love because you had a difficult relationship with them. When death happens, you are left with conflicting emotions about the individual, yourself, and your relationship. This group offers a safe place to explore these feelings and unresolved issues with others who understand. Dinner is provided. Tuesdays, January 8 - March 12 from 6:00-8:00pm Tuesdays, April 2 - June 4 from 6:00-8:00pm FLIGHT (FAMILIES LIVING IN GRIEF & HEALING TOGETHER): Support for families with children, teens and adults. Groups are divided by age, so topics are discussed in age appropriate methods. Children and teen groups utilize art projects to express their grief. Free babysitting is provided for ages 5 and under who are not in diapers. Dinner is provided. Tuesdays, January 8 - February 26 from 6:00-8:00pm Tuesdays, April 2 - May 21 from 6:00-8:00pm MURDER LOSS SUPPORT GROUP: When a person has lost a loved one to murder, it is a tragic and unique loss not always understood by others. General bereavement issues will be addressed with particular attention given to the specific needs that arise after a traumatic death. Dinner is provided. Thursdays, January 10 - March 14 from 6:00-8:00pm Thursdays, April 4 - June 6 from 6:00-8:00pm PERINATAL & INFANT LOSS SUPPORT GROUP: Losing an infant or child in-utero is devastating and not always acknowledged. This group allows individuals & couples who have had a miscarriage or lost a child under the age of 2 to share this loss and begin to heal together. Bakery and coffee is provided. Saturdays, January 12 - March 2 from 9:00-11:00am Saturdays, April 6 - June 1 from 9:00-11:00am SPOUSE LOSS SUPPORT GROUP: The death of a spouse can leave a huge void in one s life. This group allows those who have lost a spouse or significant other to find hope and support. Dinner is provided. Wednesdays, January 9 - March 13 from 6:00-8:00pm Wednesdays, April 3 - June 5 from 6:00-8:00pm SUICIDE LOSS SUPPORT GROUP: When a person has lost a loved one by suicide, their grief can be complicated. General bereavement issues will be addressed with particular attention given to the specific needs that arise for survivors of a loss from suicide. Dinner is provided. Thursdays, January 10 - March 14 from 6:00-8:00pm Thursdays, April 4 - June 6 from 6:00-8:00pm YOUNG ADULT GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP: A group for adults aged grieving the loss of a loved one. Dinner is provided. Tuesdays, January 8 - March 12 from 6:00-8:00pm Tuesdays, April 2 - June 4 from 6:00-8:00pm 6 cornerstone of hope a center for grieving children, teens & adults

7 A Glimpse into our 16th Annual Benefit Gala Saturday, February 23, CHAMPIONS OF HOPE: KIM AND JOEY LOJEK BY MARK TRIPODI Integrity, humility, generous and tender of heart are words that come to mind when I describe Joey Lojek. Passionate, kind, hard-working and service minded are characteristics of his spouse, Kim. Together, they have brought a light of enthusiasm, trust and willingness to join Cornerstone of Hope s mission of meeting families in their darkest hour, constantly offering HOPE to those who grieve! Christi and I formally met the Lojeks 10 years ago at our annual Gala. As Cornerstone s programs and outreach continued to evolve so did Joey and Kim s commitment. In spending time with them over the years, we have always tried to express our gratitude with words of praise and thanksgiving only to hear both of them say in tandem, No! Thank you! Cornerstone of Hope deserves the praise not us. Inevitably tears well in their eyes when we discuss what brings families to seek support from our ministry. In particular, Kim is reminded of what it was like to be a grieving teen as she experienced the loss of her mother at the age of 17. The compassion they have for those who grieve is so evident. They chose to journey with friends and colleagues who grieve with words of encouragement, a listening ear and steadfastness to always be present with them. Those who know Joey recognize that he is soft spoken. However, his heart speaks volumes when you get to know what a caring and giving man that he is. Those traits are evident in the culture of his company, Premier Truck Sales and Rentals. During a recent tour as I interacted with his employees, I witnessed the utmost respect for their leader. As a former Board Member, Kim continues to go above and beyond for Cornerstone of Hope at every opportunity. She is relentless in her pursuit of unique auction items for our annual Gala and creative in her approach to suggest better ways for us to gain awareness in the community, serve more families and increase our development efforts. Kim always shares a new idea on how Cornerstone of Hope can be even better. We are blessed by her thoughtful insight. We are honored and privileged to recognize Kim and Joe Lojek as our 2019 Champion of Hope recipient. Thank you for always always being so eager to help us, help others! May God continue to guide and protect you, your family and your work every day!

8 Most Creative Cornerstone of Hope s Auction offers Unique Opportunities Over the past sixteen years, Cornerstone s amazing donors have provided one of a kind auction packages for gala attendees. Whether it s the excitement of the live auction or guests bidding electronically on their smart phones for the silent auction, you can guarantee there will be something for everyone at this year s event! Here s our list of some of our favorite auction packages from past years: Hamilton Tickets VIP Kentucky Derby Trip Isabella Mihalik s Pizzelles Life-size Star Wars Stormtrooper toy Birthday Party in Cornerstone s Lisa s Butterfly Treehouse First Pitch at an Indians game Superbowl tickets Yacht rental Behind the Scenes tour of the Natural History Museum Your donation to our gala could make our list of unique auction items! Be creative & make a gift that will give HOPE to grieving individuals & families! Share Hope over the Holidays As you shop this holiday season, we hope that you ll think of those facing one of the most difficult times in their life. When you re at the store, and if you see an item that you think will be a great auction item for our gala, pick it up and bring it to our Gala Donation Drop-off event. No matter the size, every donation will impact those seeking healing after the death of a loved one. Gala Donation Drop-off Thursday, January 10, 2019 from 11:00am - 2:00pm Enjoy a light lunch as you drop off your new or unique auction item for our 16th Annual Benefit Gala Looking for ideas? Visit our Amazon Registry at: smile.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/h0vvs8r74zmq and sign up with Amazon Smile to increase your impact!

9 Premier Sponsorship Levels Cornerstone of Hope s Premier levels are for individuals or companies who are looking to make a lasting impact. As a Premier Sponsor, you will help by underwriting our most popular and crucial programs. Your support at these levels ensures that our programming remains accessible to individuals and families who need grief support. To hear more about these sponsorship opportunities, please contact Debbie Galland at Cornerstone of Hope by calling $25,000 Diamond $20,000 Emerald $15,000 Ruby Support Groups Professionally led groups for all ages with options specific to type of loss: Suicide Loss Overdose Loss Child Loss Spouse Loss & more Grief Camps for Youth Children and teens choose from one of four free camps for a life changing experience: Camp Cornerstone Camp Erin Camp Heroes Camp Memory School Outreach Programs Students, teachers and administrators receive expert care: In-School Support Groups Community Education Trainings Sponsors Receive VIP Cocktail Hour to Preview Auction Items Two tables of ten at Gala Platinum table benefits Priority seating Special recognition at event and on Gala webpage Recognition at support groups Sponsors Receive VIP Cocktail Hour to Preview Auction Items Platinum table benefits Priority seating Special recognition at event and on Gala webpage Recognition at summer grief camps Sponsors Receive VIP Cocktail Hour to Preview Auction Items Platinum table benefits Priority seating Special recognition at event and on Gala webpage Recognition as school program supporter Become a Gala Sponsor Platinum Table Gold Table Silver Table Tickets $10,000 Includes Table of Ten Individual Ticket benefits Wine service at table Personalized centerpiece Full page ad Name on front cover of program Celebrity guest Priority Seating $5,000 Includes Table of Ten Individual Ticket benefits Wine service at table Personalized centerpiece Full page ad Name on inside program cover $3,500 Includes Table of Ten Individual Ticket benefits Wine service at table Personalized centerpiece Half page ad Name on inside program cover $225 Includes Complimentary valet parking Dinner Live and silent auction Raffles and sideboards

10 5905 Brecksville Road Independence, Ohio p: HOPE cornerstoneofhope.org GALA CHAIR Missy Hayes The Story Behind the Gala Proceeds will benefit Cornerstone s Compassionate Care Fund When faced with the sudden loss of your spouse while raising young children, how do you find the strength to go on? Sadly, this is a story we hear too often at Cornerstone of Hope. Families come to us struggling on how they will face a new normal without their loved one, and we help them find hope and healing. Those who never dealt with financial difficulties previously, are wondering how they will now manage to pay bills as a single-income household. Cornerstone of Hope s Compassionate Care Fund offers financial assistance to grieving individuals or families who are unable to afford services. Through this special program, they can now receive much needed care and support. Cornerstone of Hope s individual counseling fee per session is $40; however, not all of our clients can afford this rate. 43% 43% of our clients rely on Compassionate Care funds to receive critical support services. DID YOU KNOW? We offer services for grieving individuals from age 6 through adult, so we are able to support an entire family from children through great-grandparents. In addition to counseling, there are 10 other opportunities throughout the year for a family to honor a loved one including: family workshops, candle lightings, butterfly release & other programs. Important Dates Thursday, January 10, 2019 Gala Donation Drop-off Lunch from 11:00am to 2:00pm Friday, January 25, 2019 Last day to donate an auction item with event program recognition Friday, February 1, 2019 RSVP deadline to sponsor or purchase a ticket Saturday, February 23, th Annual Benefit Gala

11 Support Groups Specialized Support TAPS: For Those Who Lost a Military Loved One Meets on the first Saturday of each month from 10:00-11:30am. TAPS is the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors and is a resource for anyone who has suffered the loss of a military loved one regardless of the relationship to the deceased or the circumstance of the death. This group is run by a TAPS trained facilitator along with a co-facilitator who are both experienced in grief. If you would like to attend, please Bob Derga at rderga@gmail.com. Coffee and bakery is provided. What I found most helpful about the group experience was the openness. It was helpful to know I was normal in what I was going through. Continuing Hope and Support Bible Study Fridays, January 11 - March 15 from 10:00-11:30am Fridays, April 5 - June 21 from 10:00-11:30am Professionally-led group that offers topical Bible study covering elements of the grieving process. Studying the Bible can help in understanding God s role and power in our healing. Light refreshments are provided, and attendees must have completed a Cornerstone group previously to participate. Transcending Grief Series Professionally-led series to support the continuation of your grief journey. We will explore a wide array of topics relevant to bereavement with time for sharing and support. Please note: This group meets on the second Monday of the month from 6:00-8:00pm. We ask that you register prior to the Friday before group if you would like to attend by calling There is a $10 per person fee, and dinner will be served. You must have completed a Cornerstone group previously to participate. We invite you to join us on: Monday, January 14 Monday, February 11 Monday, March 11 Monday, April 8 11

12 Cornerstone News A Special Thank You Eddie Miller Foundation Eddie Miller Foundation donated $5,000 from the Eddie Miller Memorial Foundation Golf Outing held on August 4th at Mallard Creek Golf Course. Lago Lago hosted their Let s Brunch for Charity to support Cornerstone of Hope on August 26, $ was donated to Cornerstone of Hope. Tavern of Little Italy Tavern of Little Italy Clam Bake, hosted in memory of Nicolo G. Turcoliveri, Jr. on Sunday, October 21, $3,620 was raised to support those who are grieving the loss of a loved one. Ridgecliff Foundation Ridgecliff Foundation has granted $23,900 to support Cornerstone s Accidental Overdose Loss and Suicide Loss Support Groups. Alpha Tau Omega Alpha Tau Omega at Kent State University raised $5,000 for Cornerstone at their annual Cornhole for a Cause event. The brothers have selected Cornerstone to be the beneficiary of this event for 6 years! Corleone s Ristorante & Bar Dine for Hope, hosted by Liza & Pete Bosinger at their restaurant, Corleone s Ristorante & Bar, raised more than $3,800 for Cornerstone of Hope s programs. Ways You Can Give Back To Cornerstone of Hope: We have many meaningful opportunities to give back to Cornerstone of Hope while building a legacy in honor of your loved one. For more information about these opportunities, please contact Lynne Robie at or lynne@cornerstoneofhope.org. Share Your Story Hearing your experience brings hope to individuals starting their grief journeys. Whether you have been through individual counseling, participated in a support group or attended one of our programs, you can make a difference by sharing your story and the impact Cornerstone of Hope had on your healing. If you would like to memorialize your loved one through this writing experience, please visit our website under the Donate tab, or go to cornerstoneofhope.org/ fullpage/share-your-story. Third Party Fundraisers You can give back and memorialize your loved one by hosting a Third Party Fundraiser such as company fundraisers, product fundraising, community events, or golf outings. We are honored by those who choose to host fundraisers on our behalf. No matter the size of your event, we appreciate all gifts which directly impact the lives of grieving individuals and families. For more information about hosting a Third Party Fundraiser visit cornerstoneofhope.org/ fullpage/third-party-fundraisers. EverydayHero EverydayHero, our newest fundraising tool, provides an opportunity to GIVE BACK and honor a loved one by creating a personalized fundraising page. By sharing your personal page on social media, you can gain support for Cornerstone of Hope. All donations raised through EverydayHero will directly benefit our many programs, support groups, camps, and counseling. Create your fundraising page by going to cornerstoneofhope.everydayhero.do. 12 cornerstone of hope a center for grieving children, teens & adults

13 Cornerstone News Events that give HOPE. 4th Annual Life Ball Cornerstone of Hope hosted the 4th Annual Life Ball on October 19th, raising more than $68,000. Proceeds benefit the Endowment Fund established by Cynthia and Allen Haire in Guests celebrated life and hope with a masquerade theme, and this event s proceeds secure the future of Cornerstone and ensure that bereavement services will be available to families for years to come. A special thank you to sponsors: Presenting Sponsor and Host: Cynthia and Allen Haire, Enerco Group, Inc. Title Sponosors: DiGeromino Companies, Solar Testing Laboratories, Inc./ Nancy and Mike Kichurchak/American Cube Mold Signature Sponsors: Ground Works Land Design, Debra and Eoin Herlihy, Kaulig Co./The Matt & Lisa Kaulig Family Foundation, and Rennell Family Foundation Table Sponsors: Armada Risk Partners, Home Instead Senior Care, Milstein Capital Group, Northwestern Mutual, Ohio Business Machines, LLC, George H.L. & Carol Arnold Porter, and Thomarios Thanking our Wonderful Volunteers Friday, October 5th was a special evening as more than 50 volunteers, their guests, and our Cleveland staff gathered for food, fun, and to celebrate all our volunteers do to support our mission. The evening s theme was Volunteers Make a World of Difference, and the food and decorations had an international flare. Special volunteers who make a tremendous difference were recognized as follows: Cindy Conner received the Judy Garnett Award, which recognizes an individual who fully embraces the core values of COH through hard work, dedication, and service for others. Volunteer Debbie Golias, a long-time volunteer, was honored with a Perseverance Award, as Debbie lets nothing prevent her from cheerfully and faithfully serving. Finally, Missy Hayes was honored with a development award named in her honor for the outstanding work she has done in chairing the Annual Gala Benefit for 15 years. We are thankful for all who so generously share their time and talents with Cornerstone of Hope. 13

14 Spiritual Addition of a Spiritual Advisory Committee by Christi and Mark Tripodi As 2018 comes to a close, we would like thank God for the existence of Cornerstone of Hope for the past 15 years. We believe that God moved our hearts to start a place to comfort and instill hope in those who grieve. Fifteen years sounds like a long time but the truth is we are just into our teen years as a ministry! We constantly seek guidance from other Christian agencies who began their ministry years before Cornerstone was founded. After much advice, prayer and discernment, we identified an organizational need to form a Spiritual Advisory Committee led by a local Chaplain. There are many possibilities for this committee to make an impact. As we launch this new initiative we want to be intentional about two crucial areas: intercessory prayer and new Christian programming, such as memorial services within the community, an inspirational speaker series, book studies, and retreats for adolescents and adults. The work has already begun! We are humbled and excited to announce the appointment of Cornerstone of Hope s chaplain, Fr. Jim Cosgrove. Born and raised in Garfield Heights, Fr. Cosgrove attended St. Martin of Tours Grade School in Maple Heights with his two siblings and graduated from Trinity High School in He received his biology degree from the University of Dayton before returning to Cleveland to pursue a career in nursing. All glory be to God that God had other plans! Fr. Jim heard the call to the Catholic priesthood and with fervent joy and passion has never looked back. He has a strong desire to walk with anyone who seeks the grace, consolation, and peace only God can bring. Having been connected to Cornerstone of Hope through our current programs, prayer and development efforts, Fr. Jim is eager to be a presence for our healing ministry. He will also collaborate with our Board and staff to identify other Christian pastors and lay leaders to participate in this ecumenical committee. Stay His, Fr. Jim says. He wants nothing more than for us to know we are always seen and loved in the eyes of our heavenly Father. 14 cornerstone of hope a center for grieving children, teens & adults

15 Professional CONTINUING EDUCATION Education & Training For more information about the upcoming CEU or to register, please visit our website at cornerstoneofhope.org. All programs are held at Cornerstone s Independence office unless otherwise noted. Registration is required. THEOLOGY OF GRIEF SESSIONS January 10 February 7 March 14 April 11 Time: 3:30pm - 5:00pm Presenter: Ty Morgan, LSW Cost: $20 per session CEU: 1.5 CEU for Social Workers, Counselors and Nurses. Description: God invites us to position ourself on the grief journey to receive divine awareness and inspiration. With the truth of scripture as our guide, we journey into the profound mysteries in the Theology of Grief. Program includes light refreshments. You do not have to attend all, just the dates you are able. SELF-CARE IN THE MIDST OF YOUR OWN STORMS January 16, 2019, 9:00am - 12:00pm Presenter: Linda Anderson-Gaines, PCC-S Cost: $35 CEU: 3 CEU for Social Workers, Counselors and Nurses. Continuing Education hours for Funeral Directors pending. Description: Those who care for, comfort, and counsel others are certainly not exempt from the storms of life. The consistent utilization of healthy self-care strategies are essential if we expect to survive and to thrive in spite of the storms. THE IMPACT OF CULTURE IN CLINICAL SUPERVISION January 23, 2019, 1:00pm - 4:00pm Presenter: Julia Ellifritt, LISW-S Cost: $35 CEU: 3 CEU for Social Workers, Counselors and Nurses. Description: A supervisor s ability to connect with a supervisee is critical to a work environment and client outcomes. This relationship is enhanced if the supervisor has an understanding of that person s dominant culture. Participants learn interventions to make the supervisory relationship more beneficial. MEMORIAL TATTOOS February 5, 2019, 5:00pm - 6:00pm Presenter: Julia Ellifritt, LISW-S Cost: $20 CEU: 1 CEU for Social Workers, Counselors and Nurses. Continuing Education hours for Funeral Directors pending. Description: How we memorialize loved ones is changing; including memorial tattoos. Featuring the Cornerstone of Hope research project with 200 bereaved participants, and how a memorial tattoo aided in their grief. WHEN EMPATHY AND BOUNDARIES COLLIDE February 28, 2019, 5:00pm - 7:00pm Presenter: Ty Morgan, LSW Cost: $35 CEU: 3 CEU for Social Workers, Counselors and Nurses. Continuing Education hours for Funeral Directors pending. Description: Having healthy professional boundaries is essential to good practice, with the lack of professional boundaries being one of the most common reasons clinicians have their license revoked. Sometimes balancing boundaries with empathy can be difficult. We will discuss appropriate amounts of self-disclosure, boundary crossings, boundary violations and areas of risk. INTRODUCTION TO CRISIS INTERVENTION March 18, 2019, 5:00pm - 8:00pm Presenter: Pete Bliss Cost: $35 CEU: 3 CEU for Social Workers, Counselors and Nurses. Continuing Education hours for Funeral Directors pending. Description: We ll explore crisis definition, terminology, theory and management models. You will also receive an exhaustive resource list for further crisis management training. School Crisis Team Training February 26, March 4, & March 13, 2019 Participants must attend all three days Time: 8:30am - 3:30pm Presenter: Laura Serazin, LPC, ATR Cost: $300 CEU: 18 CEU for Social Workers, Counselors and Nurses. All schools have their own crisis plan, however, the challenge is often having enough trained and qualified people to meet the need. It can be difficult for one or two counselors to handle the counseling needs of an entire school when the community has a sudden loss. Training is designed for private and public schools who intend on developing a school crisis team within your district, or in combination with other schools/districts. To watch a short video about the School Crisis Response Team, please visit: cornerstoneofhope.org/page/videos. 15

16 5905 Brecksville Road Independence, Ohio p: HOPE f: cornerstoneofhope.org Non Profit Org. U.S. Postage PAID Cleveland, Ohio Permit #1106 Hope s MESSENGER Winter 2019 To learn more about upcoming programs or to register, please visit cornerstoneofhope.org, contact our Cleveland office at SAVE THE DATE - CLEVELAND 1/7 Winter Groups Begin 1/10 Gala Auction Donation Drop-off Lunch 1/14 Transcending Grief 1/16 Professional Education Program 1/23 Professional Education Program 2/4 Stepping Stones Group Introduction 2/5 Professional Education Program 2/7 Theology of Grief Series 2/11 Transcending Grief Series 2/23 16th Annual Benefit Gala 2/28 Professional Education Program 3/1 Survivors of Suicide Series 3/8 Survivors of Suicide Series 3/11 Transcending Grief Series 3/14 Theology of Grief 3/15 Pain to Purpose Retreat 3/15 Survivors of Suicide Series 3/18 Professional Education Program 3/22 Survivors of Suicide Series 3/29 Survivors of Suicide Series 4/1 Spring Groups Begin 4/5 Survivors of Suicide Series 4/11 Theology of Grief Series 4/13 Easter Pancake Breakfast 4/29 Stepping Stones Group Introduction facebook.com/cornerstoneofhope facebook.com/cornerstoneofhopecolumbus STAFF - CLEVELAND Mark Tripodi, MBA CEO/Founder Francine Artiste, Ph.D. Executive Director Patrick Milloy, LPCC-S Clinical Director Brianna Bonacci, MA, LPC Rebekah Chilcote, ATR, LPC Julia Ellifritt, LISW-S Ilia Estremera Debbie Galland Judi Horvath Nicole Kraus, MSSA, LSW Lisa Marks, LPCC Kathie McNeilly Isabella Mihalik Amy Mitchell, LSW Ty Morgan, LISW Katlyn Phifer Lynne Robie Laura Serazin, LPC, ATR Katrina Williams, MA, LPCC CLEVELAND BOARD OF DIRECTORS Michael Neff Chairperson Casey Rasata Vice Chairperson Jeff Spetrino Treasurer Judith Matsko Secretary Christi Tripodi Founder Stephanie Collins Jay DeFinis Kathy Futey Tom Futey Cynthia Haire Ed Butler Bobby DiGeronimo Donnie DiGeronimo Denise Dufala COLUMBUS 1550 Old Henderson Rd, Suite E-262 Columbus, Ohio Dan Hartnett Missy Hayes Chris Kichurchak Alec Kulik Bobbie Lindenbaum Willie Littlejohn Laurie Malone Joan Maser Wayne Ostrosky Jason Palus Dan Tompkins Loree Vick James Vilcheck Dave Wheeler Dale Williams FOUNDING BOARD LOCATIONS Dino Lucarelli Lisa Kurtz Luciano* Frank Rini Patrick Rollins *Until we meet again CLEVELAND 5905 Brecksville Road Independence, Ohio LIMA 2963 Blue Jacket Court, Suite B Lima, Ohio CORNERSTONEOFHOPE.ORG